Well, if you want to crank it, you are going to have to buy speakers that can handle the torture and an amplifier that doesn't clip at the necessary power. Also, save up for some hearing aids
How do you have your speakers setup? It is possible that room interactions are causing you to be missing information so that you raise the volume higher. With proper room placement and also proper acoustic treatment, you narrow the aberrations in the frequency response within your room which will allow you to hear your music better at all volume levels.
Bipolar speakers, in order for them to function optimally, should be at least 4' away from the wall behind them. This will allow sufficient delay between the time the rear-firing speakers sound wave hits the wall and the reflection reaches your ear. This delay will make the music sound like it is more reverberant/live. Without this important >4' separation, the rear-firing wave's reflection off of the front wall will interact with the original front firing wave in a way that is negative to overall sound quality (the FR will receive nulls and peaks where the nulls are the most damaging).
With bipolar speakers, you cannot compromise on this distance from the front wall. If you have to compromise on the distance between speaker and front wall, unfortunately, the bipolar design will not work. It is possible that a compromised setup of bipolar speakers would have caused you to have to listen at higher volumes to compensate for all of the cancellations caused by the bipolar design being constrained relatively close to the front wall. One way to partially deal with this compromise is to put 2-4" thick acoustic panels behind the speakers. A place like gikacoustics has solutions for about 60$ per panel. Before you commit to this, do try to listen to your speakers when they are >4' away from the front wall temporarily just to see if they solve the loudness problem.
In addition to this, the location of your seat has quite a bit to do with what you hear. Against the rear wall, at multiples of 1/4 the length dimension, these are all troublesome spots acoustically.