Deeko's continuing girl problems(OH MY GOD IS SHE A SLUT!!!)

[Deeko]

Lets see...I woke up 15 minutes into my first class, and wouldn't ya know it, I can't move my neck without excruciating pain(from pulling a muscle last night benching), I struggle to get to class, only to find out that I got a 41 on my calculus midterm, I get back and I'm talking to my girlfriend via text messaging, and what's the first thing she tells me? I know you're coming home this friday and I haven't seen you in over 3 weeks but that ball that I'm going to with another guy is that night, you might as well wait till thanksgiving to come home.

I do believe this is the worst day of my life. And I have only been up 40 minutes.

 

[ohtwell]

Sorry to hear that your day is off to a bad start. 🙁

Maybe things will get better! 🙂

Try and cheer up!! 😀


: ) Amanda

 

[DanTMWTMP]

sux!...my neck hurts ...except i was up looking up @ the leonids...

i hope ur day ends well ....keep @ it man....40 minutes...u can always rebound back...just like how the lakers came from behind and beat them kings 🙂

i hear killing kittens is a good remedy...anyone around ur place? no?..tight!! .....bust out the pr0n!

 

[Viper GTS]

On the bright side, you're not at work.

It could be worse.

😉

Viper GTS

 

[MichaelD]

I had to read it twice; I thought you said you pulled a neck muscle from belching. I was like, WTF? Those are some mean-ass burps!!! :Q

So, your GF is going to a ball/dance/gala w/another guy? That sucks @ss, now doesn't it? She'd be an ex-GF real quick like.

Trust/maturity has nothing to do w/this. In my eyes, it is DISRESPECTFUL for her to go w/another date...even if he is "just a friend."

MY GF would never do something like that. Fine, you may say "yeah, Mike, cause she's as weird as you!" whatever. 🙂

It's just not right.

Oh; you suck at math. Welcome to the club. Me too. Offer to wash/wax the profs car for a month. That will get you a passing grade.

Oh; you need TWO alarm clocks. I have two. On opposite sides of the bed...it makes it difficult to shut them both off that way.

Good luck w/the rest of your day. 🙂

 

[wyvrn]

I'd drop the girlfriend too, unless the other guy was her brother or something. I just didn't ever put up with that from women. I'd love to have your problems though, if I told you mine I think you would feel a lot better about your day 🙂 Hope your day goes better though.

 

[Dedpuhl]

Originally posted by: Deeko
Lets see...I woke up 15 minutes into my first class, and wouldn't ya know it, I can't move my neck without excruciating pain(from pulling a muscle last night benching), I struggle to get to class, only to find out that I got a 41 on my calculus midterm, I get back and I'm talking to my girlfriend via text messaging, and what's the first thing she tells me? I know you're coming home this friday and I haven't seen you in over 3 weeks but that ball that I'm going to with another guy is that night, you might as well wait till thanksgiving to come home.

I do believe this is the worst day of my life. And I have only been up 40 minutes.

Cripes. I though I was having a bad day when I couldn't find a clean pair of socks to wear this morning...

 

[optoman]

I know you're coming home this friday and I haven't seen you in over 3 weeks but that ball that I'm going to with another guy is that night, you might as well wait till thanksgiving to come home.

Translated: This guy is my other boyfriend and your just going to have to take a number. 😉

 

[Viper GTS]

2nd the suggestion for two alarms.

I use my cell phone as a secondary, one on each side of the bed. They're set a few minutes off, & I use the snooze on each... Turning them off requires me to be awake enough to determine which alarm is going off, by that point I'm (usually) conscious enough not to go back to sleep.

Viper GTS

 

[Deeko]

So, your GF is going to a ball/dance/gala w/another guy? That sucks @ss, now doesn't it? She'd be an ex-GF real quick like.

There was a thread about it a few weeks ago. Basically I'm at college and she doesn't know how to have a social life without me and she wants to go to the ball to be with her friends

I love her so freakin much but I can't stand the way our relationship is lately.

Oh; you suck at math. Welcome to the club. Me too. Offer to wash/wax the profs car for a month. That will get you a passing grade.

I don't really suck at math though, I got a 95 on the first midterm(we have 2 midterms and a final)...and I thought I got an A on this one too...hmm...looks liek I was a little off.

Translated: This guy is my other boyfriend and your just going to have to take a number.

Don't fvcking remind me. She expects me not to have a problem with this. I told her to let the other guy know she has a boyfriend and she got upset with me.

My day still has potential to get worse, don't you worry...I've got a chem midterm later, I could always bomb that, my grandfather had a heart attack last week which aggrevated other problems he had, the heart surgeory went well so he should be ok, but I haven't called home to find out yet....and hey, I live in Philly, I could always get shot or raped by a huge black guy named Jamal. Ya never know.

 

[MrBond]

It must be "suck ass tuesday" cause my week has done a total 180. I sent out a machine for repair two weeks ago, finally get it back today, open it up to find this specialized clamp we need to run it is bent to hell. Now the clamp was in FINE shape when I sent it out, and the company claims they never used it. No biggie, I think, it should be easy to replace. Wrong. They only have them in sets, at $2500 each. Well, considering its year end and the budget is shrinking, not to mention it cost $1000 to fix the problem in the first place (which I think was a design flaw on their part and they just refuse to admit it), getting approval for a $2500 clamp set (that we already own, we just need ONE piece out of that they don't sell seperatly) seems slim.

Not to mention I think there still might be a problem with the machine itself. But I can't get the damn thing calibrated without the clamp.

 

[Deeko]

:Q:Q:Q:Q

Something went right!

My dad just emailed me, he drove my car over the weekend and it didn't break down!

:Q:Q:Q:Q

Oh wait, that isn't something going right, it was just something that DIDN'T go wrong...and it can still break down on me when I come home, it did the last two times.

 

[deerslayer]

The day can only get better, hopefully 🙂

 

[MichaelD]

Deeko, things will get better. Your GF has moved on. I suggest you do too. <---no "ifs ands or buts about it" OK? 🙂

OK, you don't suck at math...you just had an off day, that's all. 🙂 I still suck at math. 🙂

Press forward, Sir. Things will look up.

 

[GoingUp]

I stepped in a hug pile of dog crap and didnt notice it today... then I was sitting at my desk wondering what the smell was and I happened to look at my shoe 😱

 

[Deeko]

I know I should move on...its the logical thing to do....but I just can't. Imagine you are 17/18 years old, your first girlfriend is your first everything, from holding hands through sex. It isn't easy to let someone like that go, especially after 11 months and 17 days.

 

"I get back and I'm talking to my girlfriend via text messaging, and what's the first thing she tells me? I know you're coming home this friday and I haven't seen you in over 3 weeks but that ball that I'm going to with another guy is that night, you might as well wait till thanksgiving to come home"

No offence, Deeko. But if such situation as the above would count in your list of misfortunes in life, then you've got major and deeper issues. You must look up to your gf to find and give you happiness. And if you're looking in that direction, you'll never find it. You'll find sadness instead. Your gf is realising this herself and trying to improve her life. But you're still staying in the same position. Seriously, stop suffocating yourself when you've got a gf who is even giving you plenty of space. It sounds to me that you're desperate and very afraid of being officially single. You know this relationship isn't working and isn't healthy, but you want to be in it anyway just for the fear of being single and never finding someone else. But there's nothing to be afraid of. Being single is very fun. There's nothing as great as freedom. 😛

As for your Calculus class: You can do better next time, I guess. Don't wallow in pitiness. Just study harder or get help from people who can offer you that academic support. There's always room for improvement. I hope that you do well in your finals.

 

[MaxDepth]

Originally posted by: Deeko
I know I should move on...its the logical thing to do....but I just can't. Imagine you are 17/18 years old, your first girlfriend is your first everything, from holding hands through sex. It isn't easy to let someone like that go, especially after 11 months and 17 days.

Hey, I'm having a bad week too. (Yet another job application rejection)

What say you finish your mid-terms, then you and me grab a case or two of beer and go home and beat the crap out of that other guy. Just for fun.

It won't solve anything but at least it make us feel better. (not to mention the pleasing effects of a couple of beers)


/me not at all "touchy feely" this week.

 

I do believe this is the worst day of my life. And I have only been up 40 minutes.

This is your worst day ?

Cheer up, you'll have much worse days in your future.
Wait until you graduate and have to become responsable for yourself.

 

[agnitrate]

Don't worry, Deeko. What I would do is wait until after the dance and really talk to her about how you feel. I know you told her it made you uncomfortable already but I would especially reiterate the fact that it seems like she was trying to replace you while you were gone, etc, etc. Your g/f seems nice and I don't think she's the type that would totally ignore you when you told her something like that.

And as for your math, I can always try to help you if you ever have any questions 🙂 I can't guarantee I will know how to do it but I can give it a shot. Also, if I have figured out one thing here at Purdue, it is that the average calculus test is anywhere between 50-70 and the grades are scaled accordingly. So just study up for your other tests if you have them and especially the final and just try your best.

Just think, if this is the worst it can get, it can only start getting better. 🙂

Good luck, man.

-silver

 

[Deeko]

What say you finish your mid-terms, then you and me grab a case or two of beer and go home and beat the crap out of that other guy. Just for fun.

It won't solve anything but at least it make us feel better. (not to mention the pleasing effects of a couple of beers)

haha but it could help...if we break his legs he won't be able to dance with my girl on Friday 😉

This is your worst day ?

Cheer up, you'll have much worse days in your future.
Wait until you graduate and have to become responsable for yourself.

Oh don't worry, it still has room to get worse.

Don't worry, Deeko. What I would do is wait until after the dance and really talk to her about how you feel. I know you told her it made you uncomfortable already but I would especially reiterate the fact that it seems like she was trying to replace you while you were gone, etc, etc. Your g/f seems nice and I don't think she's the type that would totally ignore you when you told her something like that.

I'm still coming home Friday. That is, unless she wants to go out with him Saturday night too

I don't know...I don't think she's given up on us yet, she always tells me how much she wishes things were like they used to...we both want it, the difference is I am more willing to work for it than her.

And as for your math, I can always try to help you if you ever have any questions I can't guarantee I will know how to do it but I can give it a shot. Also, if I have figured out one thing here at Purdue, it is that the average calculus test is anywhere between 50-70 and the grades are scaled accordingly. So just study up for your other tests if you have them and especially the final and just try your best.

thanks...and most classes at Drexel curve, however, the math department has a policy of no curving. Good for me eh?

 

[ROTC1983]

I hope everything gets better man 🙂 I have a week to finish 10 chapters of psychology, we are short-handed at work (so my workday has just been changed to a later shift), and I have a lot of work to do for a bunch of other classes...I hope I finish all of this 🙂

 

[agnitrate]

Quote

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
And as for your math, I can always try to help you if you ever have any questions I can't guarantee I will know how to do it but I can give it a shot. Also, if I have figured out one thing here at Purdue, it is that the average calculus test is anywhere between 50-70 and the grades are scaled accordingly. So just study up for your other tests if you have them and especially the final and just try your best.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


thanks...and most classes at Drexel curve, however, the math department has a policy of no curving. Good for me eh?

Ouch. Well, how is the rest of your class doing? I know sometimes they SAY they don't curve but they can't give everybody in the class a 60%. If they do, then they start going to the professor and they start asking why everybody is doing so poorly. I should say my test is curved because all the grades are straight up until the end of the semester when they decide the scale to work on. Hopefully my grade will reflect this 🙂 And ask her to go out Saturday. I'm not sure how it is for you but I go on vacation 2 weeks after thanksgiving so you have a whole month to get things back to "like they used to" be. Maybe she'll feel more comfortable with you being away after xmas vacation.

-silver

 

[Platypus]

Originally posted by: agnitrate

Quote

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
And as for your math, I can always try to help you if you ever have any questions I can't guarantee I will know how to do it but I can give it a shot. Also, if I have figured out one thing here at Purdue, it is that the average calculus test is anywhere between 50-70 and the grades are scaled accordingly. So just study up for your other tests if you have them and especially the final and just try your best.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


thanks...and most classes at Drexel curve, however, the math department has a policy of no curving. Good for me eh?

Ouch. Well, how is the rest of your class doing? I know sometimes they SAY they don't curve but they can't give everybody in the class a 60%. If they do, then they start going to the professor and they start asking why everybody is doing so poorly. I should say my test is curved because all the grades are straight up until the end of the semester when they decide the scale to work on. Hopefully my grade will reflect this 🙂 And ask her to go out Saturday. I'm not sure how it is for you but I go on vacation 2 weeks after thanksgiving so you have a whole month to get things back to "like they used to" be. Maybe she'll feel more comfortable with you being away after xmas vacation.

-silver

On top of that, most math classes have a final that is worth most of the grade. My TA even told me that the final will pretty much determine your grade in the class. Take some time over the thanksgiving break, relax, get your head right and go ace the damn thing. As for the female troubles, it's tough because if you really love her then you have to work on the distance thing. If your love is not really all there, go out and meet people. You are in college now man, it's time to move on.

 

[Deeko]

Ouch. Well, how is the rest of your class doing? I know sometimes they SAY they don't curve but they can't give everybody in the class a 60%. If they do, then they start going to the professor and they start asking why everybody is doing so poorly. I should say my test is curved because all the grades are straight up until the end of the semester when they decide the scale to work on. Hopefully my grade will reflect this And ask her to go out Saturday. I'm not sure how it is for you but I go on vacation 2 weeks after thanksgiving so you have a whole month to get things back to "like they used to" be. Maybe she'll feel more comfortable with you being away after xmas vacation.

I'm not sure how the class did, but the proffessor did seem pretty pissed in lecture friday, and in recitation today I wasn't really paying attention if she gave any statistics, I was too busy thinking about the fact that I couldn't move my neck far enough to see her. I'm pretty sure the math department as a whole just don't curve though. That's what the TA said.

Usually things go fine while I'm at home, its just while I'm away that she gets like this. I'm home from this friday through 12/2, I'm actually supposed to go back on 12/1, but the 2nd is our 1 year anniversary....then I come back from 12/11-1/6...so hopefully all will go well in the time I'm home.