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Dear YAGT'ers

M

melly

Diamond Member
I have just received a PM from a fellow ATer and obviously I will obey the "private" in PM.

I am posting a generic reply here, in hopes that it can help others and even perpetrate a discussion.

Here's the thing; regardless of what sex you are, confidence is always good. In today's day and age we live in a crazy world whereby bouts of depression and low self-confidence prevail, and certainly everyone is entitled to periodic episodes. However, you must look inside yourself and try to look for positives. Afterall, if you yourself think you're worthless and good-for-nothing, why would a girl or guy want you?

You have to sell yourself! I sometimes see a couple together and they might both be ugly, or be a hot guy and ugly girl, or ugly guy with hot girl, or both hot. And sometimes when I'm having a shallow moment I will think to myself, "How the hell did that girl end up with him" (or vice versa)...and then I start to ration it out and pick out great qualities. "She is a nice dresser" or "He has a nice smile regardless" .... It doesn't matter that one might be overweight or this or that. Personalities are key, warmth, and the level of ease at which you find yourself with a person.

In the past I've been attracted to those who might not necessarily be the hottest guy, but he treats me like a princess or he makes me laugh or I just feel a great rapport with him. And I know I am not the cutest girl out there contrary to popular belief ( 😉 ) but I am told constantly how funny I am, how I have great skin, or great teeth, or great eyes, or a smile...maybe even my hair. Ask a couple what attracted them to each other in the first place and chances are it will be something quirky; something that they never saw in a person before. Whatever makes you stand out shall be your secret weapon.

And, having spoken my piece on this, remember that my word is not the law regardless of my vast experience. Every person is different; every situation is different. Timing is a great factor in relationships and when things are right, they will happen for you!

 
Timing is a great factor in relationships and when things are right, they will happen for you!
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Excellent point. Doesn't matter, though. The sender of the PM, who shall remain nameless other than the fact that his name rhymes with "FlyTalkerMixtyFix" is beyond hope.
 
Originally posted by: Jzero
Timing is a great factor in relationships and when things are right, they will happen for you!
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Excellent point. Doesn't matter, though. The sender of the PM, who shall remain nameless other than the fact that his name rhymes with "FlyTalkerMixtyFix" is beyond hope.
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lol
 
Well written... and smell... smell is important... a girl's scent can drive a guy nuts too. 😀
 
Originally posted by: xmellyx
And I know I am not the cutest girl out there contrary to popular belief ( 😉 ) but I am told constantly how funny I am, how I have great skin, or great teeth, or great eyes, or a smile...maybe even my hair.
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True, Adul is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay cuter in stockings.

:lips:
 
"Don't Flee From Yourself -- If you have a quality be proud of it. Let it define you, whatever it is."

What the heck does YAGT mean anyways?
 
Originally posted by: azazyel
"Don't Flee From Yourself -- If you have a quality be proud of it. Let it define you, whatever it is."

What the heck does YAGT mean anyways?
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YAGT = Yet Another Girl Thread

Does anyone remember what started all the YA threads???
 
I'm just curious, why do ppl here frown upon my YAGT threads?

First off, I dont ask the same questions over and over again, I usually ask something a little different each time, the only reason why you guys rip on me and try to say I do things that I don't or try to make me sound more negative than I am,
is because you guys obviously have low self esteem and need to boost it by ripping on someone else.

And maybe you'll say, no the reason we don't like your threads is because they're annoying!

You wanna know how many threads I find here that are annoying, that I just dont read? A lot. I think have the threads on this forum are stupid. Each person is entitled to their own opinion.
If you don't think that the discussion is useful in any way shape or form, then dont reply to my threads,
I choose to not read threads on this forum, or to read them, think they are gay and not reply, you guys should be able to do the same as well.

I repeat "DO NOT REPLY AT ALL" quoting me and saying "GO AWAY" in bold beneath it is still replying.

I'm sick of the lack of tolerance on this board.
 
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: azazyel
"Don't Flee From Yourself -- If you have a quality be proud of it. Let it define you, whatever it is."

What the heck does YAGT mean anyways?
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YAGT = Yet Another Girl Thread

Does anyone remember what started all the YA threads???
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Thanks, you wouldn't belive some of the things I came up for that.

Young Annoying Guy Thread
Yelling At Girls Thread
Yellow Ass Guy Thread
"Y" Are Girls Threatening
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
I'm just curious, why do ppl here frown upon my YAGT threads?

First off, I dont ask the same questions over and over again, I usually ask something a little different each time, the only reason why you guys rip on me and try to say I do things that I don't or try to make me sound more negative than I am,
is because you guys obviously have low self esteem and need to boost it by ripping on someone else.

And maybe you'll say, no the reason we don't like your threads is because they're annoying!

You wanna know how many threads I find here that are annoying, that I just dont read? A lot. I think have the threads on this forum are stupid. Each person is entitled to their own opinion.
If you don't think that the discussion is useful in any way shape or form, then dont reply to my threads,
I choose to not read threads on this forum, or to read them, think they are gay and not reply, you guys should be able to do the same as well.

I repeat "DO NOT REPLY AT ALL" quoting me and saying "GO AWAY" in bold beneath it is still replying.
I'm sick of the lack of tolerance on this board.
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you could keep all your questions in one "please help the inept skywalker deal with his inability to talk to women" thread
 
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