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[Ranger X]

Let me guess .. the ex de-virginized her, correct? I would say if she doesn't end it, dump her. She's probably going back to the ex and bitching about you when you do something she doesn't like.

Think about this : One night, you two have a fight late at night. She storms off and goes over to his place. She is there bitching about you and what do you think will likely happen? Do you think she'll eat cookies with milk and have a fun chat or screw his brains out? Dump her NOW because she is obviously not over her ex.

BTW girls are attracted to these jerks and punks. You must be the "nice guy".

 

[Hankysmoo]

Originally posted by: Rob9874

Originally posted by: GeneralGrievous
I hope you are applying there because you want to go there, and not because she is. Following a girl around at 17 is rather stupid.

I agree. I (and SO many people I know) have dated so many girls that were "the one" at the time. You'll have "the one" at 17, at 18, at 19, and so on. At one point, you'll realize that every girl you date can't possibly be the one. And when you hit your mid-20's, and realize how naive you were in your teens, you want to help those in their teens now. But they don't want to hear it. Old people are always trying to kill your buzz. But when you get older yourself, you realize why.

Yup, that's what we call wisdom with age.

 

[sniperruff]

Originally posted by: Rob9874

Originally posted by: GeneralGrievous
I hope you are applying there because you want to go there, and not because she is. Following a girl around at 17 is rather stupid.

I agree. I (and SO many people I know) have dated so many girls that were "the one" at the time. You'll have "the one" at 17, at 18, at 19, and so on. At one point, you'll realize that every girl you date can't possibly be the one. And when you hit your mid-20's, and realize how naive you were in your teens, you want to help those in their teens now. But they don't want to hear it. Old people are always trying to kill your buzz. But when you get older yourself, you realize why.

i guess that is life. you'll have to mess something up yourself and then learn the lesson and never do it again.

but washington U... never heard of it...

GO STONY BROOK!

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Rob9874

Originally posted by: GeneralGrievous
I hope you are applying there because you want to go there, and not because she is. Following a girl around at 17 is rather stupid.

I agree. I (and SO many people I know) have dated so many girls that were "the one" at the time. You'll have "the one" at 17, at 18, at 19, and so on. At one point, you'll realize that every girl you date can't possibly be the one. And when you hit your mid-20's, and realize how naive you were in your teens, you want to help those in their teens now. But they don't want to hear it. Old people are always trying to kill your buzz. But when you get older yourself, you realize why.

damn...where'd you get that wisdom!!!

nice post.

 

[nick1985]

Originally posted by: Isshinryu
Groundless jealousy. Work on losing it.

i wouldnt say it was groundless, i can see where he is coming from.

 

[faenix]

Originally posted by: Ranger X
Let me guess .. the ex de-virginized her, correct? I would say if she doesn't end it, dump her. She's probably going back to the ex and bitching about you when you do something she doesn't like.

Think about this : One night, you two have a fight late at night. She storms off and goes over to his place. She is there bitching about you and what do you think will likely happen? Do you think she'll eat cookies with milk and have a fun chat or screw his brains out? Dump her NOW because she is obviously not over her ex.

BTW girls are attracted to these jerks and punks. You must be the "nice guy".

He actually didn't. Which came as a HUGE shock and joy to me. Thank god.

 

[Gurck]

Originally posted by: Ranger X
BTW girls are attracted to these jerks and punks.

True words.

 

[faenix]

Thanks for the comments guys.

Just felt like adding pictures. Don't know why.

 

[KarenMarie]

You are not wrong to be jealous. If she cared about you, and knew that it bothered you, she wouldnt do it. Why would she continue to do something that she knows bothers you?

Dont talk bad about David. That will just fuel her defending him.

It is rough to care for someone when they have someone else on their mind, in whatever capacity.

 

[Excelsior]

Originally posted by: Lola
personally, i do not think you are being unreasonable.
I would NEVER bring up old flames like that in any relationship i was in.

You need to seriously sit her down and ask her why she is still talking about him and why she still has photod of them together.
The key is not to be the bad guy.
Really tell her how much you care for her and that it truly hurts you when she does/says what she does. try and find what her motives are and why she still brings up her past.

or if you wanted to fight fire with fire, just start talking about a girl you dated before and she how she reacts.

 

[Kaiser__Sose]

Originally posted by: faenix
Thanks for the comments guys.

Just felt like adding pictures. Don't know why.

he looks like a little mongrel.. just beat is @55... just kidding..
you shouldn't be jelly.. but at your age every little thing seems like a big deal..
soon you'll be in your mid 20's pimpin' 3 or 4 girls at a time and won't really
sweat the small stuff.