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Dating with herpes...

Most people don't realize that between 55 and 70% of college age women have herpes. 80% of THOSE women will never have a single outbreak, but can still pass it on to others who may.
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Most people don't realize that between 55 and 70% of college age women have herpes. 80% of THOSE women will never have a single outbreak, but can still pass it on to others who may.
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are we talkling mouth herpes or junk herpes?
 
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
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No wonder you can't hang on to a woman. You might wanna drink a RedBull or something 😉

 
Have a friend with HPV, it has really been hard for him, especially since he gave it to a girl (unknowingly) that he really did like.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
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How do they test and are the results reliable?

As I understand it, herpes can and and I think usually does go into remission. If and when it does, I think you will have no symptoms and you are very much less apt to be communicable.
 
Originally posted by: Muse
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
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How do they test and are the results reliable?
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the test can be done with your doctor or planned parenthood clinics if you're uninsured (they work on a sliding scale based on income). The results are fairly reliable - it's a good idea to go once a year if you're sexually active.
 
Originally posted by: Muse
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
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How do they test and are the results reliable?
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you had to ask, but they jam a metal rod up your penis, press a button and the rod splitters up and they pull it out and it drags across the skin to get a sample.

I ALMOST FAINTED JUST TYPING IT. Never want to go through that.
 
Originally posted by: austin316
Originally posted by: Muse
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
what's scary about herpes is that condoms only offer limited protection. It's not fair to judge people who have it but, seriously, people should get tested and be honest with people before giving them a life long ailment over 20 minutes of fun. Or, in my case, 3 minutes of fun and 3 hours of crying and apologies!
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How do they test and are the results reliable?
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you had to ask, but they jam a metal rod up your penis, press a button and the rod splitters up and they pull it out and it drags across the skin to get a sample.

I ALMOST FAINTED JUST TYPING IT. Never want to go through that.
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Ummm. I just had a blood test.
 
Also, HSV1 can be spread sharing utensils (not just lollipops). So if you have a guest with coldsores, disinfect that stuff! Or just accept that you'll get herpes one day...
 
Back to the OP - I think a dating service (or a tag on current dating services) for people with STDs is a great idea - keep them out of the regular gene pool! I mean that with no disrespect, but it's better if people are honest with each other. The problem is, so few people are.
 
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Have a friend with HPV, it has really been hard for him, especially since he gave it to a girl (unknowingly) that he really did like.
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Meh, basically everyone that has had sex probably has some form of HPV. Its like saying, "oh snap! i gave you a cold?!"
 
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Have a friend with HPV, it has really been hard for him, especially since he gave it to a girl (unknowingly) that he really did like.
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Meh, basically everyone that has had sex probably has some form of HPV. Its like saying, "oh snap! i gave you a cold?!"
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I'm not quite sure if genital herpes is THAT rampant, but it's fairly wide-spread.

Edit: the prevalence rates I came up with place it at/around 22-25%

Also, from what I know (and I could be completely wrong), if you've had chicken pox, then you have a chance of displaying herpes zoster later in life.
 
Originally posted by: Whisper
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Have a friend with HPV, it has really been hard for him, especially since he gave it to a girl (unknowingly) that he really did like.
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Meh, basically everyone that has had sex probably has some form of HPV. Its like saying, "oh snap! i gave you a cold?!"
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I'm not quite sure if genital herpes is THAT rampant, but it's fairly wide-spread.

Edit: the prevalence rates I came up with place it at/around 22-25%

Also, from what I know (and I could be completely wrong), if you've had chicken pox, then you have a chance of displaying herpes zoster later in life.
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HPV (human papillomavirus) is NOT herpes. Maybe you need to change your avatar to reflect something you actually know about?
 
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: Whisper
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Have a friend with HPV, it has really been hard for him, especially since he gave it to a girl (unknowingly) that he really did like.
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Meh, basically everyone that has had sex probably has some form of HPV. Its like saying, "oh snap! i gave you a cold?!"
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I'm not quite sure if genital herpes is THAT rampant, but it's fairly wide-spread.

Edit: the prevalence rates I came up with place it at/around 22-25%

Also, from what I know (and I could be completely wrong), if you've had chicken pox, then you have a chance of displaying herpes zoster later in life.
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HPV (human papillomavirus) is NOT herpes. Maybe you need to change your avatar to reflect something you actually know about?
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As short as your post was, I simply skimmed it--and the post that you quoted--and assumed they were in relation to herpes rather than HPV. Obviously, I should've read more closely.

Edit: And just for the sake of completeness, the numbers for HPV that I could find also place its prevalence at about 25%, with estimated lifetime prevalence of something like 75%.
 
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