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Dating Question - What does it mean when women do this?

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I've asked three girls out in the last few months, and all have said yes, we go out and I find out they are "kinda dating someone" yet they still go out with me. Later I meet the "kinda boyfriend" and it's all awkward. What does this mean?

can't figure it out, anyone?
 
Are you and the girl both clear on the idea that when you go out, it is actually a date and not just a friend thing? If not, then there is your answer. If so, then they are just fecking with your head.

Ryan
 
I guess I'm doomed to try to figure out women.

To answer your question, yeah it was pretty clear they were dates. I guess I didn't literally say "do you want to go on a date" but it was implied since how often does a guy just go up to a girl and ask her if she'd like to go to the movies as friends?
 
And what's wierd is they all said yeah lets meet, and then when I show up two of them introduce me to their guys out of the blue, and then later when I asked them they were like "we are dating, kinda" as if it somehow depended on me impressing on them that I'm more of an alpha male then who they are currently with.

I've also met girls online who act interested in me and then send me pictures but with her and a guy in it.

What the heck are they trying to say?
 
That's funny. I've asked out three girls in the last few months, too. But in my case they all said "no," and they all kicked me really hard in my testicles. Ouch! :frown:
 
oh man, what a wierd situation. I have never had that happen to me so I have no real advice to offer besides run and hide 🙂
 
Well, being someone who has done that before, I'll try to clue you on what it means: She's not exactly content (this could mean anything from looks to affection to performance) with the guy she's sort of with at the moment, so she's shopping around for a better one. If she does not find a better one, then she'll stick with the "sort of" bf. At the same time, it could mean she's not so sure about where the "sort of" bf stands about their relationship. She hopes this dating stuff might make him a little more interested in her. However, she tries to secure her position in case the "sort of" relationship amounts to nothing.

I hope that helps and makes sense. 🙂
 
So basically you are saying women are manipulative bastards that will back stab their current boyfriend and use another guy just so that they can end up with the guy with the most money.
 


<< That's funny. I've asked out three girls in the last few months, too. But in my case they all said "no," and they all kicked me really hard in my testicles. Ouch! :frown: >>




did it hurt ???😉
 


<< So basically you are saying women are manipulative bastards that will back stab their current boyfriend and use another guy just so that they can end up with the guy with the most money. >>



Wow... well, maybe not the guy with the most money alone... I think they are after the best one they can get. The best one is defined through an extensive rating system that is unique from woman to woman, but can depend on: money, looks, personality, intelligence, and how the guy treats her.

Ryan
 


<< So basically you are saying women are manipulative bastards that will back stab their current boyfriend and use another guy just so that they can end up with the guy with the most money. >>




What it could mean is that they are dating the guy but aren't commited in which case they are free to see other people, though why they'd introduce ypu isn't clear to me unless you all run in the same social circles.
 


<< Well, being someone who has done that before, I'll try to clue you on what it means: She's not exactly content (this could mean anything from looks to affection to performance) with the guy she's sort of with at the moment, so she's shopping around for a better one. If she does not find a better one, then she'll stick with the "sort of" bf. At the same time, it could mean she's not so sure about where the "sort of" bf stands about their relationship. She hopes this dating stuff might make him a little more interested in her. However, she tries to secure her position in case the "sort of" relationship amounts to nothing.

I hope that helps and makes sense. 🙂 >>



Otherwise known as "head games"?
 


<< can't figure it out, anyone? >>


You're not supposed to figure out.



<< I guess I'm doomed to try to figure out women. >>


Exactly. You got it. 😉
 


<< I've asked three girls out in the last few months, and all have said yes, we go out and I find out they are "kinda dating someone" yet they still go out with me. Later I meet the "kinda boyfriend" and it's all awkward. What does this mean? >>

lol! It means "none of them have put a ring on any of these here fingers, so they're getting what they paid for (including you)."



 
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