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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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If Christian Troy (Nip/Tuck) can't pull it off successfully, what makes you think you can?

Seriously. Describe a plausible way in which this situation doesn't end with Jerry Springer-esque drama.
 
Originally posted by: crt1530
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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If Christian Troy (Nip/Tuck) can't pull it off successfully, what makes you think you can?

Seriously. Describe a plausible way in which this situation doesn't end with Jerry Springer-esque drama.
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I don't watch the show. I'm not certain where this will go if anywhere thats why I posted this asking.
 
You decide you like girl and want exclusive relationship. Girl decides to give it a go. Spurned lover trashes your car.

You've had a long day and would really like to see your girlfriend and get a piece. She's sleeping over at HER girlfriend's place. Call up Rosie Palm.

I don't care. I just can't see a plausible way where it ends up as a positive experience. Even if it's just sex, you have to share her with somebody else. If you pursue it, definitely post updates like you do with your "working at the stripjoint" thread.
 
Originally posted by: crt1530
You decide you like girl and want exclusive relationship. Girl decides to give it a go. Spurned lover trashes your car.

You've had a long day and would really like to see your girlfriend and get a piece. She's sleeping over at HER girlfriend's place. Call up Rosie Palm.

I don't care. I just can't see a plausible way where it ends up as a positive experience. Even if it's just sex, you have to share her with somebody else. If you pursue it, definitely post updates like you do with your "working at the stripjoint" thread.
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will do.
 
Originally posted by: Queasy
So can she take both of you to her office party? 😉
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I can't wait to go out on the town with both of them on my arm. Talk about head turners everything comes to a dead silence when they walk into a room together.
 
I would seriously consider a threesome....you'll kick yourself in the ass for not doing it . I had a chance to do one in college and I still regret not doing it today 🙂


Ausm
 
Is she kosher with you banging/dating other girls on the side? What if one of the strippers at your club (maybe even her sister) gets a little frisky one night? If she can sleep with other people and you can't, it sounds like you are a second class citizen in the relationship.
 
Originally posted by: Ausm
I would seriously consider a threesome....you'll kick yourself in the ass for not doing it 🙂


Ausm
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Clearly I have considered that. FIrst things first I need to seal the deal with the first one. THe second will come much easier afterwards.
 
Originally posted by: crt1530
Is she kosher with you banging/dating other girls on the side? What if one of the strippers at your club (maybe even her sister) gets a little frisky one night? If she can sleep with other people and you can't, it sounds like you are a second class citizen in the relationship.
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We are just dating. We are not exclusive, it isn't her business about what I do and vice versa.

If the time comes to become exclusive I would be getting into it knowing that she has a girlfriend. There are no surprises here. I am still the only penis in the relationship.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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It works like this.
Your a booty call. Your nothing beat a dildo with a pulse.

Dont think shes going to leave her g/f for you, and dont think she wont be with other guys if she wants.

Essentially, your screwing a tramp. Your not "dating", your not a "couple".

That said, always wear a jimmy hat and enjoy your newfound chiccie snack!
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
If the time comes to become exclusive I would be getting into it knowing that she has a girlfriend. There are no surprises here. I am still the only penis in the relationship.
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:laugh:
 
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
I'm young, but I feel like I'm too old to get involved with those kinds of games at this point in my life.
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I agree. Maybe if I was 19 or 20. I'm 25 now though, I wouldn't feel like getting serious with a girl like that. But it's your choice.
 
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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It works like this.
Your a booty call. Your nothing beat a dildo with a pulse.

Dont think shes going to leave her g/f for you, and dont think she wont be with other guys if she wants.

Essentially, your screwing a tramp. Your not "dating", your not a "couple".

That said, always wear a jimmy hat and enjoy your newfound chiccie snack!
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I can live with that.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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err what?

So the girl that lezin' off to another girl... full time. Then she also wants to get with you, but not break up with her woman-love? Sounds like she's just missing a penis in her relationship...
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?
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It works like this.
Your a booty call. Your nothing beat a dildo with a pulse.

Dont think shes going to leave her g/f for you, and dont think she wont be with other guys if she wants.

Essentially, your screwing a tramp. Your not "dating", your not a "couple".

That said, always wear a jimmy hat and enjoy your newfound chiccie snack!
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I can live with that.
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Sounds like you're looking for a fvck buddy. Go forth and fornicate and make sure to keep us updated with any and all drama/hilarity that ensues.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Doodoo
As long as you don't want a long term relationship its fine. The girl i saw preferred guys but also had a gf. Plus the 3some is always good if her gf is into it. I decided i didnt want to share...so it didn't really work out. This isn't a stripper is it? The one i saw was.
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no expectations about anything long term....just keeping it light and fun.
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Boy some people are being harsh about this.

My only caveat is there is always the chance that you or the other people in the relationship will start to feel serious emotions. Which could be a painful mess.

 
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
I'm young, but I feel like I'm too old to get involved with those kinds of games at this point in my life.
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BINGO...

Seriously, OP. The amount of drama that will happen if you guys ever become serious, will really mess up anything long term.
 
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