dating a girl with a girlfriend

[IceBergSLiM]

Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?

UPDATE:

quick update was requested in other thread. I bedded her this weekend all weekend. She is infatuated with me now, sends me texts and pictures texts all day at work. She also divulged details about our romp in the hay to her girlfriend. So her girlfriend knows I'm not a lame in that area. So that is a step in the right direction. I will try and get them over my house again ASAP and encourage them to start playing on my bed again.

quick update:

well her relationship with the her girlfriend seems to be on the rocks. I don't think I have anything to do with it though. Her girlfriend is in barbados with one of her 4 sugar daddys.

She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls). I'm gonna roll with it for now but I don't see it lasting very long. She lives far enough away and she doesn't have a car so it makes it so easy for me to do what i want anyways. I am going to see if she wants to go pick up some girls together tonight.

thats all for now

FINAL UPDATE:

Well I broke it off this morning. It was going no where fast. Besides the physical relationship everything else was going nowhere fast and I didn't want to exert anymore time/energy on it. We just come from two totally different places are in totally different places in life. Would have never worked long term.

She also explicitly stated she would never let me sleep with her girlfriend last night so that was the final deal breaker. If I'm going to date a girl with a girlfriend she at least needs to have an open mind with those things.

Thanks for listening. Maybe next time it will work out better for me.

 

[krunchykrome]

I'm young, but I feel like I'm too old to get involved with those kinds of games at this point in my life.

 

[Shyatic]

Well I'll say this much -- don't ever ask or expect for a threesome unless you want to end the relationship.

It's a little weird for me to get into, but hey if you dig her and she digs you... go for it!

 

[sixone]

I hope she's worth it, daddy!!

 

[Doodoo]

As long as you don't want a long term relationship its fine. The girl i saw preferred guys but also had a gf. Plus the 3some is always good if her gf is into it. I decided i didnt want to share...so it didn't really work out. This isn't a stripper is it? The one i saw was.

 

[KarmaPolice]

sounds fun, but also sounds like its going to get complicated and then crash and burn at some point.

 

[pontifex]

dating one of the strippers at work, huh?

 

[slsmnaz]

David Crosby is that you?

 

[mugs]

I hope you don't expect this to be a long-term relationship. But if you're just doing it for fun, :thumbsup:

Is this one of the strippers at the club you work at?

 

[manowar821]

I'm 22, and I'd never do that. It's like cheating, IMO.

I do know some people who have had relationships like that last, so it's not necessarily bad. I dunno, if you're cool with it, go for it.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: mugs
I hope you don't expect this to be a long-term relationship. But if you're just doing it for fun, :thumbsup:

Is this one of the strippers at the club you work at?

no....she is the cousin of a stripper tho.

 

[dwell]

It's no secret we're close
As sweaty velcro
Like latex, fur and feathers
Stuck together
Now
In their '62 'vette
Sharing one cigarette
In a black light trance then
Go go dance
Then
Go go trance
Then
They keep me warm on cold nights
We must be quite a sight
In our meat triangle
All tangled
Wow
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She looks like you
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She's my girl too
Her and me an her and she and me
An uncrowded couple are we three
Hey we don't care what people say
When walking hand in hand down Kings Highway
Two for one today
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She looks like you
My girlfriend's girlfriend
She's my girl

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Doodoo
As long as you don't want a long term relationship its fine. The girl i saw preferred guys but also had a gf. Plus the 3some is always good if her gf is into it. I decided i didnt want to share...so it didn't really work out. This isn't a stripper is it? The one i saw was.

no expectations about anything long term....just keeping it light and fun.

 

[crt1530]

I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

 

[Zolty]

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has mental problems?

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

a threesome is not what I'm in it for. I had a bi-sexual girlfriend in college. I had them both over last night for a sunday bbq. They are both super cool to hang out with.

 

[Wapp]

PICS?

 

[Aharami]

sounds like a good deal...for a fling

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: Zolty

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has mental problems?

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?

That doesn't seem odd to you?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Zolty

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has an STD or 5?

fixed

 

[Roguestar]

Originally posted by: Chris
My Girlfriend's Girlfriend

The "Cheese Organ Remix" version of that is fantastic. \m/

OP: In before dramabomb . The sex had better be worth it because I bet she's not the girl you'll end up marrying.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Zolty

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has an STD or 5?

fixed

Oh yes from Pontifex's book of love page six.....all sexually open girls have STDs.

 

[skace]

It sounds like a good conversation piece.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Zolty

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has an STD or 5?

fixed

Oh yes from Pontifex's book of love page six.....all sexually open girls have STDs.

dude...Joke

besides, i don't think i've ever even hinted at such a thing...

 

[crt1530]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: Zolty

Originally posted by: crt1530
I suppose if you're looking get a threesome notch on your belt it might work out for you, but there's no way a woman that fvcked in the head would be relationship material.

At what point does he state that she has mental problems?

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Recently started dating a girl who has a girlfriend. They are exclusive meaning they can't see other girls but they can date guys. This is kind of new territory for me although I like the implications of such an arrangement. I do not have to give her all my time and attention because she can get some from her girlfriend.

Anyways has anyone done this? How did it work out?

That doesn't seem odd to you?

I'm a close-minded prude hating on her right to sexual freedom.