date question....

[zixxer]

ive got a good friend who doesn't really date much... he went on a date tonight... and apparently it went well. he was supposed to go out of town tommorow (and told her so..) and she mentioned she had nothing to do.. etc..

his out of town junk got canceled.. he wants to ask her out for lunch/dinner or something



I told him it's too early... what do you think?


UPDATE:
ok they.. went out today. went to eat, then to see a movie.. then her place. no kissing.. just holding hands and junk


BUT she was/is supposed to hang out w/ some guy tonight... so... competition? hoe?

 

[chuckywang]

immediately, hasn't he ever watched swingers?

 

[tm37]

CALL TONGIHT!!!


Three day rule is bogus!

 

[HappyPuppy]

When she mentioned she had nothing to do she was hinting that she wanted to go with him and screw him silly. What a retard! :disgust:

 

[KingPhil]

Call every hour on the hour...........

Swingers ruled! hahah

 

[Maximus Power]

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
When she mentioned she had nothing to do she was hinting that she wanted to go with him and screw him silly. What a retard! :disgust:

Good.
Im not the only one that caught that..

What are you waiting for?

CALL!

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: Maximus Power

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
When she mentioned she had nothing to do she was hinting that she wanted to go with him and screw him silly. What a retard! :disgust:

Good.
Im not the only one that caught that..

What are you waiting for?

CALL!

From MY experience when you show too much interest girls get turned off by it... girls want what they can't have..

 

Originally posted by: armatron
ive got a good friend who doesn't really date much... he went on a date tonight... and apparently it went well. he was supposed to go out of town tommorow (and told her so..) and she mentioned she had nothing to do.. etc..

his out of town junk got canceled.. he wants to ask her out for lunch/dinner or something



I told him it's too early... what do you think?

If all went really well, then 1 day is okay. However, he better be damn sure of himself that the date went really well.

Standardly, I would say two - three days, but it's judged on a case-by-case basis. I don't care if your friend hasn't gone on much dates, he should be able to discern whether or not he should approach her now or any other time. If he couldn't do that, then I suspect that he's wrong about how well the date went.

 

[HappyPuppy]

Originally posted by: armatron

Originally posted by: Maximus Power

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
When she mentioned she had nothing to do she was hinting that she wanted to go with him and screw him silly. What a retard! :disgust:

Good.
Im not the only one that caught that..

What are you waiting for?

CALL!

From MY experience when you show too much interest girls get turned off by it... girls want what they can't have..

Experience? Right! :roll:

 

[randal]

6 days.

/swingers

edit- lol, didn't even read the rest of the thread. gg guys

 

[Aimster]

I am the expert in women. I get all kinds of women at the local bar.

Call her tomorrow.

 

[Maximus Power]

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am the expert in women. I get all kinds of women at the local bar.

Call her tomorrow.

Maybe you can give some help to armatron, who is also an expert.

 

[benliong]

I would have said wait a couple of days if she didn't mention she has nothing to do. Given that the date went really well, go for it.

and yeah, call her voice mail and leave super-long messages until the machine cuts you off.

 

[Fenixgoon]

definitely go for it... his plans got cancelled, he can just tell her that

 

[jadinolf]

Originally posted by: armatron
ive got a good friend who doesn't really date much... he went on a date tonight... and apparently it went well. he was supposed to go out of town tommorow (and told her so..) and she mentioned she had nothing to do.. etc..

his out of town junk got canceled.. he wants to ask her out for lunch/dinner or something



I told him it's too early... what do you think?

You are the matchmaker?

 

[her209]

If his thing got canceled, I would just play it cool. If he calls her too soon, he might 1) end up going on a bad date, 2) seem too needy, 3) look like an asshole because she may already have plans (even if she says she doesn't).

 

[Detayned1447]

Definitely not too soon, the only time frame that is bad is waiting. Let them know you're interested, but don't do too many dates in a row and let them think you need them, make them realize they need you.

 

[seanws]

Originally posted by: Detayned1447
Definitely not too soon, the only time frame that is bad is waiting. Let them know you're interested, but don't do too many dates in a row and let them think you need them, make them realize they need you.

agree'd. however, i do have to agree that she wants to see him again, and he should call her to ask her out again. however, he doesnt want to call to much as he might seem over bearing

 

[The Stigenator]

if it went good, he can say definaltey that his plans got cancelled.. its good to be honest.

 

[zixxer]

text message to her (at like midnight or 1am)
"my trip tomorrow got cancelled. so.... if you want to hang out let me know. g'night"



her response:
"ill call u tom afternoon"

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: armatron
text message to her (at like midnight or 1am)
"my trip tomorrow got cancelled. so.... if you want to hang out let me know. g'night"



her response:
"ill call u tom afternoon"

sounds like a winnar to me

 

[bobbybe01]

If a girl is truly interested, it doesn't matter how soon he calls (though he better call). She'd be thrilled to hear from him.

 

[TallBill]

call.. and you are your friend.. arren't you

 

[Yossarian]

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am the expert in women. I get all kinds of women at the local bar.

Call her tomorrow.

I believe this thread applies to you.

 

[zixxer]

ok they.. went out today. went to eat, then to see a movie.. then her place. no kissing.. just holding hands and junk


BUT she was/is supposed to hang out w/ some guy tonight... so... competition? hoe?