The Atlanta Journal-Constitution: 10/9/03
ELMIRA, Ontario -- A small town hero loses his life because he was a passenger in a speeding car driven by someone else. In many circumstances, the driver would be the target of blame. But don't look for rage here. Not in this small Canadian hamlet, not in the home of Dan Snyder's parents.
"We're going to do everything we can for this boy," Graham Snyder said of Dany Heatley, the Thrashers' injured star who faces a long physical and emotional recovery, and significant legal obstacles. "This has been a tragedy and we've lost our son. But to lose another person [by putting Heatley in jail] would just be senseless. That shouldn't happen. He's already going to have awful memories of this."
The news that Heatley will accompany Thrashers players to Elmira for Dan Snyder's funeral on Friday was welcomed by members of the Snyder family.
"We really wanted him to be here," Graham Snyder said. "It's important for him to see this and have closure and say his goodbyes. We're here for Dany Heatley and we're praying he can get through this. We want him to feel support from the community. We want to let him know he's forgiven."
The front page of the local newspaper, The Record, carried a story headlined "Elmira Forgives Heatley." This is an old Mennonite town. Forgiveness is commonplace. Whatever anger toward Heatley might be felt elsewhere, residents here express none.
Dave Officer, a teacher, counselor, hockey coach and Snyder family friend, said, "I'm not aware of any resentment. People here see this as a tragedy and an accident. We don't look down on people. . . . I just can't imagine the pain Dany Heatley is going through."
Graham Snyder recalled hearing about Heatley being "shackled to the hospital bed" when he was officially charged, commenting, "That's so not what we're about. It's such a different mentality."
Jake Snyder, Dan's brother, said, "Our thoughts are with Dany's family. We feel maybe a different pain than they do right now. But we feel for both the parents and their son. My brother talked about Dany constantly. Dany was so special to my brother. He'd want us to help him get through a difficult time."
Graham Snyder said he and his wife speak to Heatley's parents "at least twice a day. We've told them, 'We don't lay blame.' Dan wouldn't have been with him that night if they weren't friends and he didn't trust him. We'll be there for him."
"We've all made mistakes in our lives," said Graham Snyder, Dan's father. "We've all gotten into a car and gone over the speed limit or done things we should not have done. Maybe those people [who have criticized Heatley] have forgotten that."