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Crazy new theory regarding relationships

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

are ugly ppl relationships even happy? if they are then what does that say about physical appearances?

Of course your assumption is that everyone has the same set of standards when judging women. Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder...well to some extent. There are girls my friends find attractive but I don't and vice versa. Now mind you there isn't anything wrong with any of these girls and I'd say they are attractive but just not for me. Chemistry, Self Confidence (how you view yourself and what kind of girl you think you can get), personality all plays a role.

Would I date a girl I thought was fugly? Hell no. Would I date an above average looking girl but not necessarily a really hot one? Sure if the other conditions are met.
 
Are you trying to convince hot girls that they have a moral obligation to go out with you even though you're ugly?


 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

Guys can get by with less than top notch looks
they can have crooked teeth and don stripes like burger crooks
because the way to a woman's heart is through her ears
But a girl must walk into the room and elicit leers
just to get the lust of her male peers
Ugly people date each other most of the time, more often
they learn to judge people in terms of less shallow aspects
this they must do so that fate's blow they can soften
because if not settle then how would they ever have sex?
 
Originally posted by: Giscardo
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

Guys can get by with less than top notch looks
they can have crooked teeth and don stripes like burger crooks
because the way to a woman's heart is through her ears
But a girl has to walk into the room and elicit leers
just to get the lust of her male peers
Ugly people date each other most of the time, more often
they learn to judge people in terms of less shallow aspects
this they must do so that fate's blow they can soften
because if not settle then how would they ever have sex?


*whince*

please don't do that again.
 
Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: Giscardo
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

Guys can get by with less than top notch looks
they can have crooked teeth and don stripes like burger crooks
because the way to a woman's heart is through her ears
But a girl has to walk into the room and elicit leers
just to get the lust of her male peers
Ugly people date each other most of the time, more often
they learn to judge people in terms of less shallow aspects
this they must do so that fate's blow they can soften
because if not settle then how would they ever have sex?


*whince*

please don't do that again.

Just because I am ugly doesn't mean you hate my post. You are morally obligated to like my poem because I put in effort and I can't control my lyrical genes.
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

are ugly ppl relationships even happy? if they are then what does that say about physical appearances?
Are you making the claim that it's impossible to be happy alone? Because that's what it sounds like. You seem to be making the asinine claim that being completely miserable in a relationship is better than being outside of a relationship.

Two unattractive people will not resent each other. In a mis-matched relationship, the more attractive person (if bludgeoned into the relationship by your spurious reasoning) will constantly resent the less attractive person and will make the less attractive person completely miserable because of it.

ZV
 
Originally posted by: Bv3
Are you trying to convince hot girls that they have a moral obligation to go out with you even though you're ugly?

no, im not trying to convince or do anything,


if anything im more worried about this for my sake, that i might turn down i girl that i do not have a human right to turn down,
(because she cannot control her appearances)
 
The piece of this is that many here are missing is that over time a person will become more or less attractive to you based on how they treat you!
 
Originally posted by: Giscardo
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, But everyone is still OVERLOOKING SOMETHING:

what do the Ugly people do?

date each other?

both of those 2 are ugly, thus wouldn't both be disatisfied?

A relationship between 2 ugly people sounds like it would be the weakest of all relationships and the most likely for divorce.
I mean do ugly people even have that much of a sex life?

Guys can get by with less than top notch looks
they can have crooked teeth and don stripes like burger crooks
because the way to a woman's heart is through her ears
But a girl must walk into the room and elicit leers
just to get the lust of her male peers
Ugly people date each other most of the time, more often
they learn to judge people in terms of less shallow aspects
this they must do so that fate's blow they can soften
because if not settle then how would they ever have sex?



very very very NICE.

actually i think you put it into terms that i can understand better.
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Giscardo

Guys can get by with less than top notch looks
they can have crooked teeth and don stripes like burger crooks
because the way to a woman's heart is through her ears
But a girl must walk into the room and elicit leers
just to get the lust of her male peers
Ugly people date each other most of the time, more often
they learn to judge people in terms of less shallow aspects
this they must do so that fate's blow they can soften
because if not settle then how would they ever have sex?
very very very NICE.

actually i think you put it into terms that i can understand better.
Empty platitudes, glittering generalities, and unsupported stereotypes presented in a way designed to make who are desireous of that which they do not have feel superior to those whom they are jealous of.

ZV
 
hey,

what if one were to take this whole thing and relate it to FRIENDSHIPS.

Should you become friends with someone, because they need a friend?

what if that person was a little strange (still a good person, but just seems a little strange on the surface) and if you became their friend, that then other people started avoiding you (even ppl that you thought seemed like pretty good people, outside of their wariness of the strange)

any ideas?
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Should you become friends with someone, because they need a friend?
Again, NO. Are you really so thick-headed that you cannot see that this is a perfectly analagous situation?

A person should become friends with another person because they want to be, otherwise it is not a friendship, it's pity. And that is simply bound to cause pain in the end.

ZV
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Bv3
Are you trying to convince hot girls that they have a moral obligation to go out with you even though you're ugly?

no, im not trying to convince or do anything,


if anything im more worried about this for my sake, that i might turn down i girl that i do not have a human right to turn down,
(because she cannot control her appearances)

It sounds like you need to spend less time pondering stuff and more time letting this fat chick jump your bones... 😛
 
Originally posted by: skywalker66
what if you did want to be friends with them, but you didnt want other people to avoid you more because of it?
Then you have to decide which you want more. You cannot change other people's reactions. And if you are resenting them for abandoning you, then you will most likely resent the new friend too in short order.

ZV
 
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