This blows my mind...
I guess I am among the lucky who have experienced nothing but speed and stability, since there seem to be so many people who are having a problem. The only thing I can think of is this: what is the voltage to your processor? My 2.53GHz P4 (which is supposed to run at a default voltage of 1.5v, I believe) is actually running at 1.6v VCore! I don't know why it would be doing this, since I have the VCore setting in the BIOS set to "Auto", and have even tried to decrease the VCore to 1.4, but my only conclusion is that my mobo is over-volting my processor. Now, this may not even make any sense, and is a huge shot in the dark, but what if the problems that everyone is experiencing at higher clock speeds are caused by the processor not getting enough voltage?
I don't think that this is a RAM issue, otherwise, you could set your processor to run at full speed, then decrease the RDRAM multiplier to 3x to get the system to work (of course, that isn't necessarily a solution). And I highly doubt that this is a power supply issue, since it seems that so many people (who probably all are using different power supplies) are experiencing this problem.
Here is some more information about my RAM/Processor:
RAM Model Number: Kingston 32ns PC1066 RDRAM (KVR1066X16-8/256)
Processor SL Code: SL682 MALAY
Good Luck!