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Could you watch your signifigant other run up in / get run up in another person??

Shockwave

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So, me and the wife watched this thing about swingers. Afterwards we joked around about goin to a swinger party, but seriouisly, could you watch your signifigant other have sex with someone else?? I really dont think I could do it, even knowing I get to sleep with some chic.
So, what are everyones thoughts on being swingers??
 

CPA

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I can not answer this question, for fear of losing any little respect I have gained at this site.
 

Shockwave

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Yeah, it was a weird show. They showed what would be normal couples, middle aged, with kids. It was funny to see two middle aged couples in a hottub switchin back ond forth with their wifes....
I was like man, I just dont think I could do it, have sex with some chic while my wife is right beside me havin some dude knock the bottom out of it.....
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
Originally posted by: CPA
I can not answer this question, for fear of losing any little respect I have gained at this site.

too late nipple ring man! :p

I have a nipple ring!! Dont be makin fun of the nipple rings!!
 

upsciLLion

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: upsciLLion
No.

I assume your religious based on your sig.... What are you feelings on swingers from a religious standpoint?

Being a swinger is a sin. It's adultery. There isn't much more to say than that. They can do what they want as long as it doesn't affect me. :)
 

new2AMD

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Yeah, it was a weird show. They showed what would be normal couples, middle aged, with kids. It was funny to see two middle aged couples in a hottub switchin back ond forth with their wifes....
I was like man, I just dont think I could do it, have sex with some chic while my wife is right beside me havin some dude knock the bottom out of it.....

forget that...Im married and I wouldnt bring my wife to anything like that but id take my girlfriend, she wouldnt mind. ;)
 

gistech1978

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nope; i couldnt.
i have a friend, that wants to do swing with his gf and another couple.
he says its the ultimate way to prevent infidelity.
i dont know about that.
but he seems to think so.
 

gopunk

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not if she meant anything to me

and frankly i doubt the long-term viability of any couple that does that.
 

CPA

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Yeah, it was a weird show. They showed what would be normal couples, middle aged, with kids. It was funny to see two middle aged couples in a hottub switchin back ond forth with their wifes....
I was like man, I just dont think I could do it, have sex with some chic while my wife is right beside me havin some dude knock the bottom out of it.....

I plead the 5th.


BTW, we're is electric amish?
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: new2AMD
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Yeah, it was a weird show. They showed what would be normal couples, middle aged, with kids. It was funny to see two middle aged couples in a hottub switchin back ond forth with their wifes....
I was like man, I just dont think I could do it, have sex with some chic while my wife is right beside me havin some dude knock the bottom out of it.....

forget that...Im married and I wouldnt bring my wife to anything like that but id take my girlfriend, she wouldnt mind. ;)

:beer:!!Thats why I have a girlfriend on the side to get dirty and kinky with. Hey man, my wife kisses my children with that mouth..... ;)

 

GermyBoy

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: new2AMD
Originally posted by: Shockwave Yeah, it was a weird show. They showed what would be normal couples, middle aged, with kids. It was funny to see two middle aged couples in a hottub switchin back ond forth with their wifes.... I was like man, I just dont think I could do it, have sex with some chic while my wife is right beside me havin some dude knock the bottom out of it.....
forget that...Im married and I wouldnt bring my wife to anything like that but id take my girlfriend, she wouldnt mind. ;)
:beer:!!Thats why I have a girlfriend on the side to get dirty and kinky with. Hey man, my wife kisses my children with that mouth..... ;)

You have fantastic ideas.
 

HamSupLo

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hmm i'm not married, but swinging does sound intriguing...probably due to my deviant mind. I might even ask the other dude to join in for a double teaming, haha :p
 

jjones

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In my bachelor days it was great but I never really cared for any of my gf's that much. I used to go to a club in O.C. and with one gf especially, we were really into it for a while. Now with my wife, I don't know for sure but I don't think I would do it. It could fvck up the relationship. It takes a certain kind of person to do that kind of stuff and my wife isn't one of them.