So this has become a complete cluster f...
My neighbor who is the mechanic told me to go to Jiffy Lube so I went, and to make a long story short, he told me the wrong f'ing place to go. It was a place called "oil lube" right near it or something. But the JL flushed my coolant and transmission system, but then the AC didn't work. So they ended up doing a full AC Freon flush/restoration or whatever and now it works just fine.
But ... my damn coolant still has a milky consistent to it when I open the radiator cap and look at it in there. I saw it doing this when I was at JL and they showed it to me. They were saying possibly I need to get it flushed multiple times to get rid of it completely. I also checked the tranny fluid and when I rubbed the dipstick on a paper towel, it had a pinkish color to it. It wasn't red like the other transmission fluid I had seen before, but it wasn't milky either. I'm pretty sure they used synthetic transmission fluid too based on the receipt so maybe it's just that color? It wasn't milky at all though, which it was prior.
I've only driven the car from the shop and back on Saturday. My neighbor said that as long as it doesn't overheat (which it didn't, stayed normal temp) that it was okay to drive it. He did say he recommends flushing it again, but wtf, this stuff isn't cheap to just keep doing. I also saw there are ways to "flush" it manually by draining and putting distilled water + flush cleaning stuff and driving for a little bit, then draining again, but I just want to know WTF is wrong with this thing so I can fix it.
Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions just based on what I have told you? At this point I'm starting to get skeptical about my neighbors mechanical skills even though I see him doing all of these side jobs all the time, and he's a mechanic by day too. It just seems so shoddy at this point. I now just wish I took it to a shop and paid the extra money to have them get this shit straightened out and just working.
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Oh yeah also at JL when they showed me the milky coolant coming out of the radiator, they were saying maybe my mechanic put the hoses backwards on the radiator, so I told that to my mechanic and he was like no way they are on right. Then I looked at a video of installing a radiator in my car and it seems nearly impossible to even do that because of where the hoses are, the length, how they are angled, etc.