It's actually not that hard to write you own lcd driver. With a parallel load LCD, all you have to do is turning the LCD on and off to avoid burn out assuming that the signals are given in parallel. If the signals are given serially, then you will have to latch the data until it reaches the desire size to send out.
Moreover, you may not want to go through the trouble...I asked my friend who sells car stereos...he told me that it cost about 130 for wholesale, but I think that's only a 5". It comes with the installation kit and power supply, no need to hassle with the dangling cables.