Judging others is an absolute necessity in any collection of people. In a forum it's in some ways easier because it's anonymous, people express thoughts and feelings that they would never say to another's face. I find it both repulsive and craven.
I don't give a shit what you think about me.
I give a shit about people being ignorant of evil people because they end up helping these evil people do evil. Like in history books and like in the news everyday.
The problem I have is that the way I look at your two points of view, they seem to be the same, judgments about characteristics of people each of you is absolutely convinced are deplorable, a judgement about others about that certainty of which arises not via some scientific evidence you can elucidate, but purely based of ‘feels’, unexamined, unconscious reactions whose negative characteristics arise out of having been personally exposed to shaming, having been put down in the past for exactly what you how despise in others. Your moral standards, no matter how valid as positives we would all live better by if practiced, are not upheld internally by real moral conviction, but by fear that acting out in such negative ways will result in abandonment and exile, the withdrawal of love and support and exposure to ridicule and punishment.
This is why I believe each of you sees the other as, simply put, ‘evil’ and why this is really all about projection, seeing the other as one learned one should never ever be, a side of yourselves you have learned to despise and deny ever having been.
In this way you live in a state of division, intolerant and hostile to how we all once were, self centered and caring only for ourselves and beaten out of such behaviors, at least regarding any conscious awareness of them, long ago as children.
There is nothing wrong with your principles. People without such inner division, people who see past such self contempt and forgive, are not Nazis or screaming brats. We no longer need our parents to survive nor any of the morality they imprisoned us with. We have the option to open the door to acceptance of our true nature, that our birthright is the joy of being.
What we hate and fear, that’s where the light is.