A couple things:
First, the source of that rumor was the same jilted ex-lover, so I both take his claims with a grain of salt and question the motivation for posting her sexual history in the first place. All we have is the illusion of impropriety, and that's reason enough for total strangers to start discussing this woman's sexual past? That's fairly absurd, and it's all based on claims which remain unsubstantiated.
Second, even if that's true, so what? You're telling me that people are basically fine with Gamespot and IGN being paid shills for companies like EA and Activision, but as soon as a single independent game developer sleeps with a single judge at a gaming festival, WHOA, THAT'S OVER THE LINE! If you want to tackle a very worthy subject of impropriety in media and the conflict of journalistic ethics with regards to the gaming industry, that's a worthy discussion, but NOT if your only concern is about the sexual history of a single woman. People jumped on this because it was titillating, not because they gave a damn if it was indicative of some broader trend of corruption. "What's that, a developer we never heard of slept with a reviewer on the tenth most popular gaming blog on the internet, allegedly for a good review even though he never reviewed her game? SAUCY."
The movement has been based on bull**** from the beginning. Find a new movement to talk about the conflict of interest in gaming journalism and I'm right there with you. Wrap it up in slut-shaming and death threats and you've completely lost me.