CONFESSION: I LIKE THIN GIRLS.

imported_Pablo

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First of all, I'm not talking about extremely skinny girls that look thin and pale. I LOVE girls that are built light and have low body fat and who are ACTIVE.

I'm not intimidated by a girl who looks good! I'm not ashamed to say that I wouldn't date a girl that was 15 lbs overweight, especially if she's my age, in her 20's. To me, if she's not fit now she's not going to look any better if the relationship succeeds and we get married and have kids.

I don't think it's shallow. I think its a personal preference and I'm sick of being made to feel like I can't say that. I take care of myself and I can't find a woman attractive if she doesn't do the same.

Why settle?
 

giantpinkbunnyhead

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I'm the same way. I'm not gonna get involved with someone I'm not attracted to mentally AND physically. And fat just doesn't do it for me. But again... neither do toothpicks. I like trim yet curvy.

 

zebano

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I married a less active girl because she shared my other interests and goals... That said, never "settle". If you don't think shes good enough for you, she probably won't be (just due to your preconceived notions) so why fight it?
 

PoloShirt

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Some girls look good with a few extra pounds. As long as it doesn't "glob." Some girls wear it nicely. Others...not so much.
 

FoBoT

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:music:
Fellas (yeah), fellas (yeah)
Has your girlfriend got the butt (hell yeah)
Well shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it, shake that healthy butt
Baby got back

(LA face with Oakland booty)

I like'em round and big
And when I'm throwin' a gig
I just can't help myself
I'm actin like an animal
Now here's my scandal
:music:
 

sandorski

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Don't be fooled. Just because a girl is fit now doesn't mean they'll be later. I've seen plenty who balloned later after having children. That said, there's a better chance they won't, just no gaurantee.
 

imported_Pablo

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Originally posted by: PoloShirt
Some girls look good with a few extra pounds. As long as it doesn't "glob." Some girls wear it nicely. Others...not so much.

"Glob" is totally a bad mental picture...
 

ggnl

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Originally posted by: sandorski
Don't be fooled. Just because a girl is fit now doesn't mean they'll be later. I've seen plenty who balloned later after having children. That said, there's a better chance they won't, just no gaurantee.

But if she's committed to staying fit early in life, there's at least a better chance she'll try to stay fit as she gets older.
 

imported_Pablo

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Originally posted by: ggnl
Originally posted by: sandorski
Don't be fooled. Just because a girl is fit now doesn't mean they'll be later. I've seen plenty who balloned later after having children. That said, there's a better chance they won't, just no gaurantee.

But if she's committed to staying fit early in life, there's at least a better chance she'll try to stay fit as she gets older.

My point exactly. A girl who's fit AND thinks she looks good will take better care of herself simply because she knows its not that hard!
 

PoloShirt

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Originally posted by: Pablo
"Glob" is totally a bad mental picture...

Well it's accurate.

I've met girls who were say 5'5 140lbs and they didn't look "globby" but just slim yet thick and athletic.

And I've seen other girls of the same height and weight and the 140lbs would just sag off to the side like that Ghostbusters Slime we had as kids.
 

djheater

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I used to love thin, petite short-haired, fair-skinned dark-haired darrk-eyed girls.. Seriously I dated 10 or so girls that fit that description.

The I fell totally head over heels for a tall(er), voluptious, freckled-faced, light-eyed beauty and my tastes now tend toward her type.

My wife is 38-28-38 5'7" 130-135, bit of a belly but it's mostly just CUUURRRVESS. yum.

:)

/lechery
 

Amused

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Attraction is subjective.

People need to stop thinking things like attraction and taste is quantifiable and objective. It is not. What you may not prefer, someone else may and vice versa.
 

EngenZerO

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so do i.

on an added note its easier to carry a thinner girl through china town in dc after you both get smashed at a club... our other friend who was a little thicker... uhm, no.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: Fiat1
Look at her Mother you will see the END results.

The father has a lot to do with it too. Looking at just the mother is only getting half the picture.
 

JulesMaximus

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Why would you feel guilty about it?

I've always liked thin athletic builds on women (not muscular-that's disgusting). I also like petite women. I sure as hell don't feel guilty about it.

<--Married to a runner. She's very fit at 38 Y/O. :p
 

davestar

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Originally posted by: Pablo
First of all, I'm not talking about extremely skinny girls that look thin and pale. I LOVE girls that are built light and have low body fat and who are ACTIVE.

I'm not intimidated by a girl who looks good! I'm not ashamed to say that I wouldn't date a girl that was 15 lbs overweight, especially if she's my age, in her 20's. To me, if she's not fit now she's not going to look any better if the relationship succeeds and we get married and have kids.

I don't think it's shallow. I think its a personal preference and I'm sick of being made to feel like I can't say that. I take care of myself and I can't find a woman attractive if she doesn't do the same.

Why settle?

Refreshing to read a post like this on ATOT. I thought everyone here was aiming for the chunk.

It's not shallow. It's simply expecting that your lady friend can/will keep up with you.
 

Feldenak

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Personally, I like girls with b00bs bigger than mosquito bites. You can keep the heroin chic.