my parents have a big family dinner on Christmas Eve (pretty much the entire extended family in driving distance and my cousin + her girlfriend from California always fly in for Christmas and stay at my parents house). after the non-immediate family leaves, we'll exchange gifts (mom, dad, sister, cousin, cousin's girlfriend, and myself). after the gift exchange, I go to midnight mass with a friend and her family (my parents / relatives don't really go to church at all).
that is, every Christmas except this one, since I got stuck working the 12 am - 8 am shift 🙁 but at least I'm off on Monday, New Year's Eve/Day, and the Monday following New Year's.