Let's say you and your wife are friends with another couple. Then lets say that we find out that one of the people from the other couple has cheated on their spouse. Do you tell the other spouse since they are your friend? Do you just talk to the one that cheated and say WTF?
I predict many MYOB responses and I'm trying to, however...the cheater is doing this right in front of me.
Let's just say that we were at an establishment drinking beers and he went off with someone in the back. Then came back and needed to borrow money...then he was bragging.
Additional details:
-We are close enough friends that we spend evenings with them 1-2 times per week
-The cheatee has expressed to me multiple times how upset they get when their spouse is checking out people and flirting
Update: 3/28/07
I talked earlier today to the "cheater." He told me that he completely loves his wife and would never do anything to jeopardize their marriage. He also informed me that while he was giving the impression to everyone that he had sex with the stripper, he really only got lapdances. Not too smart to give the impression me thinks.
I'm not sure if I believe him, but I guess as the old saying goes, "Time Reveals All."
Anyway, I wanted to thank everyone for your advice and thoughts during this thread. I have learned much about different points of view on marriage, relationships, and friendship. While I might not agree with you (i.e. GeekBabe), I do respect your thoughts, experiences and opinions. You have taught me that I should also consider that not everyone views the moralities around marriage the same way I do.
And for the record...The going rates in Puerto Penasco are $50 for HJ's, $110 for BJ's, and $180 for sex.
I predict many MYOB responses and I'm trying to, however...the cheater is doing this right in front of me.
Let's just say that we were at an establishment drinking beers and he went off with someone in the back. Then came back and needed to borrow money...then he was bragging.
Additional details:
-We are close enough friends that we spend evenings with them 1-2 times per week
-The cheatee has expressed to me multiple times how upset they get when their spouse is checking out people and flirting
Update: 3/28/07
I talked earlier today to the "cheater." He told me that he completely loves his wife and would never do anything to jeopardize their marriage. He also informed me that while he was giving the impression to everyone that he had sex with the stripper, he really only got lapdances. Not too smart to give the impression me thinks.
I'm not sure if I believe him, but I guess as the old saying goes, "Time Reveals All."
Anyway, I wanted to thank everyone for your advice and thoughts during this thread. I have learned much about different points of view on marriage, relationships, and friendship. While I might not agree with you (i.e. GeekBabe), I do respect your thoughts, experiences and opinions. You have taught me that I should also consider that not everyone views the moralities around marriage the same way I do.
And for the record...The going rates in Puerto Penasco are $50 for HJ's, $110 for BJ's, and $180 for sex.
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