utterly confused, I know some nerds and ummm, to say they're not picky would be like saying Shaq's kind of tall. Typically non nerd men are pretty relaxed on their female requirements. I have regular male friends who have slept with over 500 females. And it's a safe assumption on anyones part that a good number of these females weren't exactly stunners. A nerd will make those friends of mine look uber picky. A nerd will tolerate any female that would give them some pussy, hell many would put up with almost anything if they even THINK a woman might give them some pussy.
I'm not talking being picky over physical looks, I'm talking being picky over everything else that comes with a person. Your friend sleeping with 500 women, the intent is to screw them then leave. He's not settling down with any of the crazies for a long-term relationship.
But maybe you're right. One friend of mine started dating a girl with a serious alcohol addiction (well, it complimented him well because of his alcohol problems), not talking she drinks a lot I'm saying she's long been at the point where she cannot stop drinking else the DTs take over and completely wreak havoc on her body. He's probably nearing that point too.
All the baggage that comes along with being with such a person, his family hates him for the drinking & the girlfriend, her family hates her for the drinking, most friends have given up being friends with them. Lots of other drama caused, he's absolutely miserable. But he does get a lot of sex. I don't know. Sex isn't that important to completely lose nearly everything else in life over.