Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Damn you all make good money. I use my credit card for things I cannot afford with my pay. Maybe I am doing it all wrong.
I DO NOT make good money. If I cannot afford something, I do not buy it.
Then how do you have anything? How much do you make?
I'd rather not answer that question directly. But suffice to say my wife and I do well with our limited salaries and complain about them pretty frequently. I need to be more proactive about finding a better paying job to meet more of our long term goals, that is a fault of mine. But its always been important to me to follow the rules of frugality that my parents taught me. We make enough to live comfortably AND save some, so long as we are careful with our purchases.
I don't really look at credit cards as a way to pay for things that I don't have money for. I look at it as simply a way to pay for things, like a check or even cash. To me, the only things to go in debt purchasing are a house, and a car. (and school) Our biggest saver at the moment is that we both drive old heaps. Despite repair costs, there's still a ton of money to be saved there.
I set up a budget for what we could afford out of college, and undershot that budget by as much as we could. With pretty much $0 in the bank my main concern was building a block of savings to fall back on if things got rough. We lived in a dumpy 1 bedroom apartment, tried not to eat out to much, etc.
Make no mistake though, we were fortunate compared to others. We both managed to exit college with only around $4000 in student loan debt and one reasonable car payment. We were broke, but we were better off in the amount of liabilities then many people are at that stage.
After that I have a simple rule that keeps me from blowing to much on luxuries. I buy luxuries of course, otherwise why the hell am I working in the first place? When I see something I want, even if its on sale or something I say "wait one week, if you still want it I'll set aside some money for it." %95 of the time I don't even want it after one week. I don't have a lot of great stuff, but I'm really happy with what I DO have. When I was in college, I got a job making some pretty good money for the time over the summer. I bought all kinds of stupid crap and most of it I never even really used. So I don't want to make that mistake again. I'm fortunate that my wife pretty much does the same thing.
None of this would have worked of course if we weren't at least making enough for the necessities. However, I wouldn't ever say I made good money. I'd just say I made enough.
Oh and buy grocery store generics, they all taste the fvcking same to me.