Can I get in trouble if I email my ex-gf?

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pulse8

Lifer
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What exactly would have been trying to accomplish by emailing her?

Edit: Also, it sounds like you should be using adultfriendfinder and not people finder.
 
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KarenMarie

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You dont need to be sending her an email like that. In fact, you dont need to be sending her anything at all. It is obvious that you are soooo not over this. I suggest that you find someone to talk to about it. Not trying to be mean, or anything, but what you are suggesting is neither normal nor healthy.

:)
 
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Eli

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As if it needs to be said again, you're treading some thin ice here.

Why would you even do that to someone? Give it up, let go. They've obviously moved on with their lives, why can't you?
 
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BD2003

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Originally posted by: tec699
Originally posted by: BD2003
Theres a difference between looking up a past relationship because you miss her, and between sending a psycho email to a married woman.

Jesus.
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I just said that I'm not going to do it. Is there any harm in asking?
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I just cant believe that thats something you actually have to ask! :confused:
 
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Bulk Beef

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Originally posted by: tec699
Originally posted by: BD2003
Theres a difference between looking up a past relationship because you miss her, and between sending a psycho email to a married woman.

Jesus.
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I just said that I'm not going to do it. Is there any harm in asking?
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Not for her, but it does say something about you.

Get a grip.
 
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Lifer
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Also, if you're trying to get some kind of closure out of what happened, I suggest you take an honest route. She has a husband and maybe she's changed since you guys broke up.

If you really want to help yourself, send her an honest e-mail about how you found her, explain exactly what she did to you and convey all of this in a non-confrontational way. Chances are that if it was long enough ago she may have figured out that she was wrong and she might apologize. On the other end of the spectrum, she may tell you to fvck off and stop e-mailing her.

I probably wouldn't e-mail her at all, but if you do, do it with some kind of purpose and don't be some creepy stalker.
 
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Tremulant

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Instead of wasting your money on looking up your old girlfriends, use it for a psychiatrist instead.
 
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Eli

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It sounds like you need drama in your life to function.

Don't drag other people into it.
 
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DorkBoy

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Originally posted by: tec699
Obviously most people that read this will think I have problems letting go of the past. Maybe I do.

Well after a good 2 hours of searching for my ex-gf on the internet I used people finder. With people finder you can find ANYTHING about anyone you want! So I paid the small fee and conducted my search. I found out where she lives, her husband's name, her PO boxes that she uses, and other important "things" that would be related to her life.

I was thinking about emailing this girl and letting her know that I have found her address. Actually the email would look like this:

"I know where you live. That is all."

Could she get me for harassment?

If you guys are wondering if I was going to go after her, the answer is a definite NO! I was just wondering what you guys think.

btw, I did an aerial shot of her house. Very nice.
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Really, Get a Life Loser!
 
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Originally posted by: pulse8
Also, if you're trying to get some kind of closure out of what happened, I suggest you take an honest route. She has a husband and maybe she's changed since you guys broke up.

If you really want to help yourself, send her an honest e-mail about how you found her, explain exactly what she did to you and convey all of this in a non-confrontational way. Chances are that if it was long enough ago she may have figured out that she was wrong and she might apologize. On the other end of the spectrum, she may tell you to fvck off and stop e-mailing her.

I probably wouldn't e-mail her at all, but if you do, do it with some kind of purpose and don't be some creepy stalker.
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I might be going out on a limb here, but given this pyscho's behavior, I doubt the girl did anything really wrong to him.
 
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Eli

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I'm honestly trying to say something constructive, in a way you might understand, instead of just telling you that you're psycho.

But nothing is comming to me. Why do you feel the need to waste time on these past relationships? It's not healthy.
 
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IBuyUFO

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Originally posted by: tec699
Obviously most people that read this will think I have problems letting go of the past. Maybe I do.

Well after a good 2 hours of searching for my ex-gf on the internet I used people finder. With people finder you can find ANYTHING about anyone you want! So I paid the small fee and conducted my search. I found out where she lives, her husband's name, her PO boxes that she uses, and other important "things" that would be related to her life.

I was thinking about emailing this girl and letting her know that I have found her address. Actually the email would look like this:

"I know where you live. That is all."

Could she get me for harassment?

If you guys are wondering if I was going to go after her, the answer is a definite NO! I was just wondering what you guys think.

btw, I did an aerial shot of her house. Very nice.
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are you a psycho?
 
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CarlKillerMiller

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Originally posted by: hg321
Originally posted by: tec699
Obviously most people that read this will think I have problems letting go of the past. Maybe I do.

Well after a good 2 hours of searching for my ex-gf on the internet I used people finder. With people finder you can find ANYTHING about anyone you want! So I paid the small fee and conducted my search. I found out where she lives, her husband's name, her PO boxes that she uses, and other important "things" that would be related to her life.

I was thinking about emailing this girl and letting her know that I have found her address. Actually the email would look like this:

"I know where you live. That is all."

Could she get me for harassment? I f*ckin hate this girl and I'd like to let her think I know her every move.

If you guys are wondering if I was going to go after her, the answer is a definite NO! I was just wondering what you guys think.

btw, I did an aerial shot of her house. Very nice.
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Why are you stalking this woman and her husband?
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Because they deserve it for some reason, duh.
 
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