Some things I learned in the Navy:
Really, really, really smart people and really, really, really dumb people tend to be incredibly lazy. The difference is in how they get out of work.
Most dumb lazy people eventually learn that if they fuck something up real bad or just stand in front of it, staring, that someone else will eventually come along and tell them to just leave it alone while they get competent help to deal with it.
Smart lazy people will manipulate those around them into doing the hard work while they take as much credit as possible.
Or they will find a way to totally goof off while convincing others the work is basically done.
But there are limits. You do need to work at studying but if your brain is not aligned to retain information from books then no amount of hard work will compensate for it. Either find a better way to learn (lots of grad students teach classes on YouTube) or go on to something else.
MY problem is in dealing with others who arent smart enough to manipulate to get work done, but also never learn that not every single thing will be done for them if they just stare at it. School is one of those instances. YOU have to do the fucking work and learn for yourself, so you can pass the classes.
I had a stern upbringing and then I joined the Navy. Failed out of Nuke school (which didnt bother me cuz they had a 90% attrition rate) and then got to chip paint for 3 years before earning my way into the Advanced Electronics program.
When I got out dealing with civilians and their lackluster motivation was a real pain in the butt. Even worse when my job disappeared and I went back to college. I hope this isnt typical but the students I see every day are fucking LAZY bastards. And dumb. And they dont realize that at their stage in life you cannot get by on both attributes at the same time. You need to be either smart and lazy or dumb and hard working.
fuck heads