To follow up on my earlier post, I just received a new job offer yesterday. My current manager is someone I really like and respect but I don’t think he knows I was looking. There were times I wanted to tell him because I know there will be a huge (and negative) immediate impact, but as I previously mentioned, you just can’t risk it. Even if I were 100% sure that he would be cool about the whole thing, he would have to tell his management and it would likely not be positive for me.
So, come Monday morning, he will likely be very shocked and have to scramble for the next couple of weeks to put a plan in place to get my work done and to staff a new role they were pushing me into (part of why I decided to leave). He will probably sit and think for a few minutes and realize there were obvious signs he missed and will blame himself. I feel bad for him and my coworkers and will do everything I can to help but at the end of the day, the only people I owe anything to is my family. You can never lose sight of that fact even if you have to lie about whether you’re looking or not to your management. I hate having to lie more than almost anything but sometimes you have to in order to protect what is really important in your life.