Homophobe is a bullying term and used as a tactic, similar to calling someone a pussy. It's the wrong word to use. The term racist can be used in a bullying manner but isn't by definition a bullying term. To suggest anyone who uses a gay slur has fear of gay people is over the top and inappropriate, just as using a gay term in a derogatory manner is. However it's an accepted way of fighting ignorance, with more ignorance.
im an emetophobe - terrified of vomit/vomiting.
Hope your name's not Ralph or Chuck - what's up, Chuck?
