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[NoShangriLa]

Originally posted by: RKS
What state?
Is it a TRO or RO?
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There is A LOT of missing info in the OP. Hire a lawyer.

I'm not sure if it is a TRO or RO, but to my understanding it is an RO.

It is weird that I never got serve with a court date or paper work for the Restraining Order.

My lawyer said obviously this is a big misunderstanding & I will surely win in court. What pissed me off is that my ex & her greedy mom got all of my money & now they are out for blood. I want to clear my name in court but I want them to pay for the legal cost.

 

[NoShangriLa]

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: SearchMaster
As I recall, he was unmarried - had bought a house with his GF.

If I'm wrong so be it, but I'm remembering that they bought a very expensive home in Canada a couple of years ago (and shaking my head thinking 'yet another unmarried couple buying a house').

yeah that was really stupid. i have little to no sympathy for him


but he can fight it also depending who is on the mortgage/papers he can do more.

if nothing else get his name off it.


but don't play house unless you want to get screwed.

It is too late to regret. I had intention to marry her, and we set the date for June 1st 2008.

We didn?t want to have a wedding at an earlier time frame because we didn?t have the money for a big wedding & 20K diamond ring that her mother wanted.

 

[Jodell88]

Originally posted by: NoShangriLa

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: SearchMaster
As I recall, he was unmarried - had bought a house with his GF.

If I'm wrong so be it, but I'm remembering that they bought a very expensive home in Canada a couple of years ago (and shaking my head thinking 'yet another unmarried couple buying a house').

yeah that was really stupid. i have little to no sympathy for him


but he can fight it also depending who is on the mortgage/papers he can do more.

if nothing else get his name off it.


but don't play house unless you want to get screwed.

It is too late to regret. I had intention to marry her, and we set the date for June 1st 2008.

We didn?t want to have a wedding at an earlier time frame because we didn?t have the money for a big wedding & 20K diamond ring that her mother wanted.

trust me on this, you're better of without both gold diggers. 20k on a ring!!!!

 

[RKS]

Originally posted by: NoShangriLa

Originally posted by: RKS
What state?
Is it a TRO or RO?
Text
There is A LOT of missing info in the OP. Hire a lawyer.

I'm not sure if it is a TRO or RO, but to my understanding it is an RO.

It is weird that I never got serve with a court date or paper work for the Restraining Order.

My lawyer said obviously this is a big misunderstanding & I will surely win in court. What pissed me off is that my ex & her greedy mom got all of my money & now they are out for blood. I want to clear my name in court but I want them to pay for the legal cost.

1. call the court clerk and find out if it is a TRO (probably expired) or RO
2. If it is a RO find out the terms. Go review it and try to determine how it became a RO without your/your attorney's appearance.
3. Get another attorney and have him check the work of the malpractice contestant.


edit: just out of curiosity how the fuck did you get conned into allowing her family to stay with you and then convince your SO that a $20K ring was proper.
If you aren't married everything that you brought into the relationship should be returned to you but if you bought the house together and both names are on the deed; I'm surprised the court hasn't ordered it to be sold and proceeds divided according to the percentage that you both originally put in.
At this point I wouldn't ask a geek forum for advice; you should get a new attorney and tell him EVERYTHING.
Unfortunately I don't see you getting your ex to pay for your legal fees.

 

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