Boy,15 find anonymous sperm donor father using internet...

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http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=mg18825244.200
LATE last year, a 15-year-old boy rubbed a swab along the inside of his cheek, popped it into a vial and sent it off to an online genealogy DNA-testing service. But unlike most people who contact the service, he was not interested in sketching the far reaches of his family tree. His mother had conceived using donor sperm and he wanted to track down his genetic father.

That the boy succeeded using only the DNA test, genealogical records and some internet searches has huge implications for the hundreds of thousands of people who were conceived using donor sperm. With the explosion of information about genetic inheritance, any man who has donated sperm could potentially be found by his biological offspring. Absent and unknown fathers will also become easier to trace.

The teenager tracked down his father from his Y chromosome. The Y is passed from father to son virtually unchanged, like a surname. So the pattern of gene variants it carries can help identify which paternal line an individual has descended from and can also be linked to a man's surname.

The boy paid FamilyTreeDNA.com $289 for the service. His genetic father had never supplied his DNA to the site, but all that was needed was for someone in the same paternal line to be on file. After nine months of waiting and having agreed to have his contact details available to other clients, the boy was contacted by two men with Y chromosomes closely matching his own. The two did not know each other, but the similarity between their Y chromosomes suggested there was a 50 per cent chance that all three had the same father, grandfather or great-grandfather.
?Many have not told their families and never considered the implications of having a dozen offspring wanting to meet them?

Importantly, the men both had the same last name, albeit with different spellings. This was the vital clue the boy needed to start his search in earnest. Though his donor had been anonymous, his mother had been told the man's date and place of birth and his college degree. Using another online service, Omnitrace.com, he purchased the names of everyone that had been born in the same place on the same day. Only one man had the surname he was looking for, and within 10 days he had made contact.

"This is the first time that I know of it being done," says Bryan Sykes, a geneticist at the University of Oxford and chairman of OxfordAncestors.com, a genetic genealogy service. The case raises serious questions about whether past promises of anonymity can be honoured, he says.

Around 1 in 800 births in 2002 and 2003 in the UK were the product of donor sperm, according to the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority, a public body that regulates fertility technologies. And an estimated 25,000 people have been born from donated sperm in the UK in the past 15 years. Also, around 90,000 donor inseminations take place in the US annually, although not all result in pregnancies.

In the UK and various other countries, sperm donors must now allow their identity to be revealed to their children once they reach a certain age, but in the US most sperm donors are still anonymous. "Sperm banks are recruiting donors and promising them anonymity," says Wendy Kramer, the mother of a donor child and founder of DonorSiblingRegistry.com, an online service that matches donor offspring with their half-siblings. "I don't think that's a valid promise any more."

As more genetic information becomes available online, finding a donor father can only get easier. FamilyTreeDNA.com is running 2400 projects to trace particular surnames and has a database of over 45,000 Y chromosome signatures. The Sorenson Molecular Genealogy Foundation, based in Salt Lake City, Utah, promises to go even further. It is recruiting people from around the world and hopes to compile a database of about 500,000 representative individuals, with confirmed pedigrees going back at least four generations. The foundation will keep a database of information on Y chromosome markers, mitochondrial DNA (passed down through the maternal line) and 170 other genetic markers.

The news will be especially unsettling for men who donated anonymously before the power of genetics was fully appreciated. Donors were often college students who traded their sperm for beer money. Many have not told their wives or children and have never considered the implications of having a dozen offspring suddenly wanting to meet them. "The case shows that there are ethical and social concerns about assisted reproduction that we did not think about," says Trudo Lemmens, a bioethicist at the University of Toronto, Canada.

And the implications go beyond offspring searching for their genetic fathers. "The DNA could have come from a crime scene," says Sykes. Police could perform similar searches to identify a criminal's surname, giving vital leads in a case. "There are tremendous forensic ramifications," he adds.
From issue 2524 of New Scientist magazine, 03 November 2005, page 6


interesting story.. now wonder if he can askfor child support.. now that his dads dna has been found. guys do not donate, your dna could be used by your unknown kid for child support.. cause the laws in the US do not protect you. If you have a genetic match, you pay.
 

bigredguy

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I would imagine that part of donating would be a declaration refusing to pay child support for any child that would be produced from the donation.
 

Syringer

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You sign waivers saying you have no legal binding to the child whatsoever when you go into the clinic to donate..

Smart kid though, going through that whole process. Wonder if he got those genes from his dadda.
 

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Originally posted by: Syringer
You sign waivers saying you have no legal binding to the child whatsoever when you go into the clinic to donate..

Those waivers aren't going to protect you, at least not financially. Unless you're a millionaire, good luck just paying for attorney fees to defend yourself.
 

Specop 007

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I believe there was a case recently of a donor in Europe somewhere being forced to pay child support.
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: Syringer
Smart kid though, going through that whole process. Wonder if he got those genes from his dadda.

that's what I thought, he is quite the budding investigator
 

Scouzer

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Originally posted by: vegetation
Originally posted by: Syringer
You sign waivers saying you have no legal binding to the child whatsoever when you go into the clinic to donate..

Those waivers aren't going to protect you, at least not financially. Unless you're a millionaire, good luck just paying for attorney fees to defend yourself.

Yup. He'll have to pay child support if they ask. Sucks to be a sperm donor.
 

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Originally posted by: Scouzer
Originally posted by: vegetation
Originally posted by: Syringer
You sign waivers saying you have no legal binding to the child whatsoever when you go into the clinic to donate..

Those waivers aren't going to protect you, at least not financially. Unless you're a millionaire, good luck just paying for attorney fees to defend yourself.

Yup. He'll have to pay child support if they ask. Sucks to be a sperm donor.

I recall the waiver of child support document as having been thrown out in at least two separate cases I have read.

Essentially, in these cases, neither the mother nor the organization harvesting and providing her with the sperm, have any right to 'sign away' the rights of the child.
 

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Originally posted by: Specop 007
I believe there was a case recently of a donor in Europe somewhere being forced to pay child support.

I read that as well
 

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Originally posted by: Mucho
Originally posted by: Specop 007
I believe there was a case recently of a donor in Europe somewhere being forced to pay child support.

I read that as well

IIRC, there was a case in Sweden. A gay man donated his sperm to a lesbian couple who wanted to have a child. Some years later the couple broke up and facing the tough times the biological mom sued and won child support.
 

kranky

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The problem is that the waivers are agreements between the donor and the mother, but the right to support belongs to the child. And as was noted, no one can waive the child's rights on the child's behalf.
 

mzkhadir

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isn't their information suppose to be confidential. Couldn't the guy sue where he donated because they released his information.
 

BriGy86

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i don't see why a sperm donor should have to pay child support

in these cases it really is up to the woman on whether she wants to use that perticular sperm or not

and also should only be having children if they can pay for them
 

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Originally posted by: mzkhadir
isn't their information suppose to be confidential. Couldn't the guy sue where he donated because they released his information.

the clinic didn't release any confidential info on the guy. The kid sluthed his way to his biological father.
 

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Originally posted by: BriGy86
i don't see why a sperm donor should have to pay child support

in these cases it really is up to the woman on whether she wants to use that perticular sperm or not

and also should only be having children if they can pay for them

This depends upon the laws in force where (in the world) you live. There is case law that supports your view, which may be linked, earlier in the thread.

However, there is also case law that stipulates that the right to child support money belongs to the child. Essentially, the child is (minimally) entitled to the financial support of both the biological mother and father. Even in cases where the sperm was anononymously donated, some courts have found that the biological father has a financial responsibility for the child. Further, that responsibility is guarded by the courts and cannot be waived by a contract offered by a fertility clinic or a woman who signs the contract. It isn't their right to waive. It is the right of the child.

What is even more interesting, is that in some states, the parent(s) is/are responsible for guarding these rights. When they are found to be neglectful in guarding rights, the government can step in and become an advocate for the child.