If he can't afford his own insurance, gas bill, maintenance etc.* or if he doesn't like it, you guys are going to have to get in line behind his mom for that car. Uh, I get next dibs. 😉
Sadly Jerboi, he's going to be driving to school, work, errands and visiting. Our RTA can't even remotely come close to handling all that. As long as he'll be on the road, it will be in a reliable, safe vehicle if I can help it. If I could afford it, I'd get him a brand new one of his choosing as long as it had the safety angle covered.
I don't know where my dad got the idea to make me pay for everything, but I paid for my car, insurance and upkeep from day one. Paid room and board when I turned eighteen. Some of my friends did too, and some didn't. They all ended up being OK taxpaying citizens. If my son needs a lesson in being self sufficient, I can teach him real quick. If he talked back or lied to me, I might be more inclined to start that lesson, but he doesn't. Hmmmm, as I recall, I was smoking dope, drinking, lying and talking back to my dad on a regular basis! 😱