Just an update - got everything working, thanks again for the help everyone! I ended up picking up an Allied Telesyn Centrecom AT-MC15-10 BNC to RJ45 converter, plus a similar D-Link model (DE-855) for backup. Buy.com had the AT-MC15-10 transceiver plus a 19" rackmount kit and Ethernet cable for about $130; I picked up the D-Link used off eBay for $10 or $15 that I'm keeping as a spare.
It has two options: terminated/non-terminated and MDI/MDI-X. I believe MDI is for direct connection to computer or router, while MDI-X is for connection to a switch or hub (the manual explains the internal wiring scheme). It worked when we switched it over to terminated. Everything is peachy now and we are just using a
single adapter to get our old database server on our new network. 10/100 Ethernet is blazingly fast compared to our old setup
