You're right, I am terrible. I'm old and my reflexes are slow, but I still like running around and shooting at crap. However, with 31 other players on my side on this particular clan server, I don't believe I was solely responsible for the pillaging on the part of the attack choppers, or that the top six slots on both teams were flying, or that pretty much everyone was doing everything they could think of to knock this guy out of the air, and yet he managed to rack up a huge number of kills, and a small number of deaths.
I already acknowledged that the player was a very good chopper pilot. I'm prepared for edge-case results from very good players. But I don't think any other player in the game, playing any role other than pilot, with the active targeting attention of nearly the entire opposing team, could have maintained that streak and racked up those numbers. Sure as hell not going to do it on foot, in a jeep, in a tank, in the mobile AA. Maybe sniping.
You're seriously telling me that the defense against a good chopper pilot is shooting at him with a machine gun? I've poured thousands of rounds into choppers from all the available platforms. Yeah, I suck, but how good do I have to be to put the tracers on the cockpit when the guy is circling the base at 50 feet off the ground? I hate choppers in BF. Believe me I shoot at them with every damn thing I can find, and I'd throw rocks if I could pick them up. If he has a decent gunner, you're going to be dead long before you manage to knock that chopper down with a machine gun.
That statement just bolsters my belief that you primarily play as a pilot. That, and the fact that you mentioned stingers, which are utterly ineffective unless you get lucky, and AA, which is almost never available and really easy to take out. I'll give you soflams. They're effective, but very few people seem to play that role, and since Javelins suck so much at every other thing they do, it ain't much comfort.