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Bf is going out of town.

Zysoclaplem

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My bf is going out of town for a few days. And my life seems to revolve around him, so basically I have nothing to do. Does anyone else get depressed when their significant others leave for an extended period of time? Is this a dependancy thing?
 

hg321

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
My bf is going out of town for a few days. And my life seems to revolve around him, so basically I have nothing to do. Does anyone else get depressed when their significant others leave for an extended period of time? Is this a dependancy thing?

It is good to be devoted to you SO, but to have your life revolve around them is not good.

 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: hg321
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
My bf is going out of town for a few days. And my life seems to revolve around him, so basically I have nothing to do. Does anyone else get depressed when their significant others leave for an extended period of time? Is this a dependancy thing?

It is good to be devoted to you SO, but to have your life revolve around them is not good.

Yeah, I have friends but they all live hours away. I guess I will just stay home and play EQ2 for 3 days.
 

AMDZen

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Yes, you are seriously penus whipped. I'm curious what this "extended period of time" amounts to? 2 days, a week, a month. Thats pretty much the most important piece of information and you didn't even include it.

If its 2 days, seek help
If its a week, its understandable but you'll survive
If its a month, then your concern's are understandable.
 

AMDZen

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: hg321
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
My bf is going out of town for a few days. And my life seems to revolve around him, so basically I have nothing to do. Does anyone else get depressed when their significant others leave for an extended period of time? Is this a dependancy thing?

It is good to be devoted to you SO, but to have your life revolve around them is not good.

Yeah, I have friends but they all live hours away. I guess I will just stay home and play EQ2 for 3 days.

Oh so its 3 days, this amounts to the in between 2-4 day diagnosis then. SEEK HELP!!
 

freakflag

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Only one thing to do. Put on the miniskirt, leave the panties in the drawer and whore it up like you're paying by the hour!

That'll put a whole different spin on your weekend.
 

FoBoT

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i have been married 16 years, its no big deal.
my wife visited her sister to help with a new baby in january . she was gone for 13 days, no problem. we even did the dishes and laundry , well at least some of the dishes/laundry. the house wasn't really any dirtier when she got back than when she left, overall

i don't travel often for business in my current position, usually just a few trips of 2-5 days a year, no big deal
 

AbAbber2k

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Four weeks until my GF and I part ways until the end of July. She can't stop saying how much she's gonna miss me... I can't stop thinking about how nice it'll be to not have to reciprocate 20 "I love you's" every day. :p I just want to sit around in my underwear and play video games damnit!

And wouldn't you know it, she walked into my office right as I was typing this up. :p
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: AMDZen
Yes, you are seriously penus whipped. I'm curious what this "extended period of time" amounts to? 2 days, a week, a month. Thats pretty much the most important piece of information and you didn't even include it.

If its 2 days, seek help
If its a week, its understandable but you'll survive
If its a month, then your concern's are understandable.

I should probably seek help in the form of a hobby of some type. It just gets lonely, and he is taking the dog with him. So he is leaving me with the 2 anti-social cats.
:p
 

cerebusPu

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
PM your addy, bitte?

I'll give you plenty to do. :D

you know he's a guy. you know that right? okay...just to make sure.

to OP: its a few days break for you to do whatever you want without someone always there.
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
Four weeks until my GF and I part ways until the end of July. She can't stop saying how much she's gonna miss me... I can't stop thinking about how nice it'll be to not have to reciprocate 20 "I love you's" every day. :p I just want to sit around in my underwear and play video games damnit!

And wouldn't you know it, she walked into my office right as I was typing this up. :p

God, having a girl who actually loves you sure is a burden, huh? :roll:
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: freakflag
Only one thing to do. Put on the miniskirt, leave the panties in the drawer and whore it up like you're paying by the hour!

That'll put a whole different spin on your weekend.

I may be dodgy, but I am not a transvestite.
 
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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: AMDZen
Yes, you are seriously penus whipped. I'm curious what this "extended period of time" amounts to? 2 days, a week, a month. Thats pretty much the most important piece of information and you didn't even include it.

If its 2 days, seek help
If its a week, its understandable but you'll survive
If its a month, then your concern's are understandable.

I should probably seek help in the form of a hobby of some type. It just gets lonely, and he is taking the dog with him. So he is leaving me with the 2 anti-social cats.
:p

I thought neffing on ATOT was your hobby? :) :p

Don't worry, you'll be fine. Unless you start dressing up the cats or something. Then I'd worry. :p
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: cerebusPu
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
PM your addy, bitte?

I'll give you plenty to do. :D

you know he's a guy. you know that right? okay...just to make sure.

to OP: its a few days break for you to do whatever you want without someone always there.

What is wrong with playing video games with another guy?? :p
 

AbAbber2k

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
Four weeks until my GF and I part ways until the end of July. She can't stop saying how much she's gonna miss me... I can't stop thinking about how nice it'll be to not have to reciprocate 20 "I love you's" every day. :p I just want to sit around in my underwear and play video games damnit!

And wouldn't you know it, she walked into my office right as I was typing this up. :p

God, having a girl who actually loves you sure is a burden, huh? :roll:

Well, faithfulness aside, when you don't see the relationsihp as being long term (say parting ways when I get my BS) and you think she'd just about kill herself if you left her... ya, it can be kind of a burden.