thomsbrain
Lifer
that's lame. if it's something as simple as that, just spend the evening with them, don't kiss them goodnight, and tell them you don't think you "clicked" like you thought you would, but to take it easy all the same.
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that's pretty messed up what he did, although I'll admit I'd have been kinda scared if I showed up and the girl who was shorter than me weighed more than me when I was expecting someone who looked completely different. I wouldn't have ditched her like that though...that just isn't cool lol.
But yeah you can definitely gain a LOT of weight in 8 months...I know this girl who was relatively normal weight-wise before coming to college and now she's probably around my weight. Which is not good since I'm not exactly slim, but I'm a good 7 inches taller or so. And you don't really know what to do when your friends gain weight like crazy, especially girls anyway, cuz you can't just make fun of them like guys or drag them to the gym or whatever.
Which reminds me, I gotta hit the gym dammit. DAMMIT!
But yeah you can definitely gain a LOT of weight in 8 months...I know this girl who was relatively normal weight-wise before coming to college and now she's probably around my weight. Which is not good since I'm not exactly slim, but I'm a good 7 inches taller or so. And you don't really know what to do when your friends gain weight like crazy, especially girls anyway, cuz you can't just make fun of them like guys or drag them to the gym or whatever.
Which reminds me, I gotta hit the gym dammit. DAMMIT!
TheBoyBlunder
Diamond Member
I'd probably have tried to back out at the end of the evening politely, rather than run like hell immediately. Sure she may have gained (what sounds like) a ton or two, but that's no reason to be mean.
us3rnotfound
Diamond Member
he did the right thing.
Geekbabe
Moderator Emeritus<br>Elite Member
If you decide you're mature enough to attempt a romantic involvement with somebody from the internet,one would think a person would also be mature enough to understand the possibility that there might not be physical chemistry upon actually meeting.In such cases a mature person is prepared to have the "can't we be just friends" conversation.What this kid did was crude and mean.
alkemyst
No Lifer
i have dated a lot of chicks on and off the internet. I will say luckily I had more good experiences than just typical first date type bad ones.
However I am clear in the beginning that the pictures should look like they do now...I heard too many 'well the pic is about 5 years or 10 years old, but EVERYONE tells me I haven't changed a bit [everyone = her mother, haven't changed a bit = her boring personality and not the fact she could lineback for the 49er's now]
My worst experience were two....1) was a girl I just chatted with, didn't think of dating her (she was 45mins away also which is too far)....but she was having boyfriend problems (they moved down to Florida together and he kicked her out) and I would talk to her a lot online and then on the phone (she just moved down and had no friends other than work friends and didn't want to talk about her relationship at work).
Anyway, she mentioned 'trying some new things' while down, but she was a very conservative girl judging from the countless pics she had sent....one way she asked if I wanted to have dinner together. I figured no problem. We make plans for me to meet about 10 mins from where she lived. The day I was heading down she called me to tell me her car wouldn't start and if I could pick her up, again I figured she had more to risk than I by giving me her home address.
I get there and knock on the door...she answers...now she had mentioned the stress had her gain a little weight...well in this case that little weight refered to a whole midget...still we weren't going to be b/f g/f so what did I care, except the fact that she also had tattoos on her face and a couple nose bridge piercings....
Now the kicker was she had another girl naked on her pullout couch in her living room. The girl had a pretty decent body but a crackwhore face...definite drug abuser I'd say and was smoking a joint already...
"Wanna just eat her tonight?" I told her thanks but no thanks as I didn't want to mention it because she had problems, but I had met a girl and had been seeing her a few weeks (a lie for a nice getaway) and actually after our dinner I am to pick her up from the airport (that was also in her city and I said she went to see her folks)....
We still talked a bit but it fizzled out 🙂
The other was to just meet for sex (I dated a lot during this time and was not looking for the next Ms Right, just Ms RightNow and Ms Next 😉, however, when I got there there were two large mudder type trucks in her driveway (she said she lived alone) so it was either going to be a group thing or a beat down for me I'd imagine. She was waiting in her front yard so I pulled up to her and she told me they were they were her brother and his friends 'just hanging out' (this was about 7am-8am in the morning btw very odd)...I made up a story that one of my parents just got put in the hospital or something about work (I forgot what I told her), but I didn't have her number in my phone and just didn't want to not show up....she said we could do it some other time, but she disappeared from online and answering the phone (actually became a non-working number)...wierd. Some days I wish I went in and see what would have happened, it had to have been good.
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However I am clear in the beginning that the pictures should look like they do now...I heard too many 'well the pic is about 5 years or 10 years old, but EVERYONE tells me I haven't changed a bit [everyone = her mother, haven't changed a bit = her boring personality and not the fact she could lineback for the 49er's now]
My worst experience were two....1) was a girl I just chatted with, didn't think of dating her (she was 45mins away also which is too far)....but she was having boyfriend problems (they moved down to Florida together and he kicked her out) and I would talk to her a lot online and then on the phone (she just moved down and had no friends other than work friends and didn't want to talk about her relationship at work).
Anyway, she mentioned 'trying some new things' while down, but she was a very conservative girl judging from the countless pics she had sent....one way she asked if I wanted to have dinner together. I figured no problem. We make plans for me to meet about 10 mins from where she lived. The day I was heading down she called me to tell me her car wouldn't start and if I could pick her up, again I figured she had more to risk than I by giving me her home address.
I get there and knock on the door...she answers...now she had mentioned the stress had her gain a little weight...well in this case that little weight refered to a whole midget...still we weren't going to be b/f g/f so what did I care, except the fact that she also had tattoos on her face and a couple nose bridge piercings....
Now the kicker was she had another girl naked on her pullout couch in her living room. The girl had a pretty decent body but a crackwhore face...definite drug abuser I'd say and was smoking a joint already...
"Wanna just eat her tonight?" I told her thanks but no thanks as I didn't want to mention it because she had problems, but I had met a girl and had been seeing her a few weeks (a lie for a nice getaway) and actually after our dinner I am to pick her up from the airport (that was also in her city and I said she went to see her folks)....
We still talked a bit but it fizzled out 🙂
The other was to just meet for sex (I dated a lot during this time and was not looking for the next Ms Right, just Ms RightNow and Ms Next 😉, however, when I got there there were two large mudder type trucks in her driveway (she said she lived alone) so it was either going to be a group thing or a beat down for me I'd imagine. She was waiting in her front yard so I pulled up to her and she told me they were they were her brother and his friends 'just hanging out' (this was about 7am-8am in the morning btw very odd)...I made up a story that one of my parents just got put in the hospital or something about work (I forgot what I told her), but I didn't have her number in my phone and just didn't want to not show up....she said we could do it some other time, but she disappeared from online and answering the phone (actually became a non-working number)...wierd. Some days I wish I went in and see what would have happened, it had to have been good.
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Papagayo
Platinum Member
"The other was to just meet for sex (I dated a lot during this time and was not looking for the next Ms Right, just Ms RightNow and Ms Next , however, when I got there there were two large mudder type trucks in her driveway (she said she lived alone) so it was either going to be a group thing or a beat down for me I'd imagine. She was waiting in her front yard so I pulled up to her and she told me they were they were her brother and his friends 'just hanging out' (this was about 7am-8am in the morning btw very odd)...I made up a story that one of my parents just got put in the hospital or something about work (I forgot what I told her), but I didn't have her number in my phone and just didn't want to not show up....she said we could do it some other time, but she disappeared from online and answering the phone (actually became a non-working number)...wierd. Some days I wish I went in and see what would have happened, it had to have been good."
Maybe she was disappointed with you and didn't want anything to do with you...
Maybe she was disappointed with you and didn't want anything to do with you...
Mustangrrl
Golden Member
Just from looking at the one face pic from "before" the weight gain, I'd say she was already fat. Her face looks fat and she has big hands... he's an idiot for not noticing. I hope she does stalk him and kick his as$ for being a punk.
BTW I thought the spelling and grammar was horrible here! Damn! I didn't think their comments were funny, but I found the lack of intelligence quite amusing.
BTW I thought the spelling and grammar was horrible here! Damn! I didn't think their comments were funny, but I found the lack of intelligence quite amusing.
I think this says it all....
Originally posted by red civic hb
seriously, about how many pounds do you think she weighed?
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Originally posted by Sad Clown
I'm guessing... 185.
So say she put on 100 plus add that to the BEFORE pic of her :Q
Originally posted by red civic hb
seriously, about how many pounds do you think she weighed?
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Originally posted by Sad Clown
I'm guessing... 185.
So say she put on 100 plus add that to the BEFORE pic of her :Q
Regs
Lifer
I'm sure he is no winner either considering that wasn't exactly a mature response to go about handling the situation. He could of just said, "sorry, but I don't feel right with you or it's not going to work out', and simply would of went on with his life as usual.
I just don't know how these people can socially interact in a way where they become attracted to each other on the net. Finding dates on the internet just seems to bizarre for me, for at least, right now.
I just don't know how these people can socially interact in a way where they become attracted to each other on the net. Finding dates on the internet just seems to bizarre for me, for at least, right now.
"However I am clear in the beginning that the pictures should look like they do now...I heard too many 'well the pic is about 5 years or 10 years old, but EVERYONE tells me I haven't changed a bit [everyone = her mother, haven't changed a bit = her boring personality and not the fact she could lineback for the 49er's now]"
LMAO! Hahahahahahahaha! Too many people fall for stuff like that.
I haven't exactly fallen for that before, but there's this funny story: So, I went on chat to find a "legitimate" friend of mine, with whom I had fallen apart. In the process, chat room became my place for fun on the 'net. I met this guy who was quite nice to me the first day I joined the teen (I was a teen at the time) chat room. He showed interest in me and all. I was also playing my character there, especially as he was nice to me. At the time, I didn't think the 'net would be a source of liars or crazy people, since everyone around me was a teenager who acted "cool". Anyway, we kept on communicating via the 'net and he even gave me his number, even though I never called. I would press for his pictures all the time. He would make excuses that he had none. I believed him all that while, except he kept making promises. Then one day, he just came out and shared his pic with me. I was expecting a handsome guy, in shape, but boy was I wrong. This guy was huge and had this thick glasses on. He described himself as ugly, worthless . . . the way he wrote his confession was just so funny. He confessed to me that he had the pics but was too shy to share it. I LMAO! 😀 I then proceeded to advice him to cut down if he really wanted to look good enough to be presentable. He was still an internet friend to me, since I had grown fond of him. My favourite female chat room friend just joined in the laughter and revealed to me that she was aware that he looked that way, which is why she was always hesitant when I showed interest in him. It was so funny at the end. I had so much fun at that chat room, and that event was part of the fun. For the most part, though, the guys on there were not overweight and were decent looking.
LMAO! Hahahahahahahaha! Too many people fall for stuff like that.
I haven't exactly fallen for that before, but there's this funny story: So, I went on chat to find a "legitimate" friend of mine, with whom I had fallen apart. In the process, chat room became my place for fun on the 'net. I met this guy who was quite nice to me the first day I joined the teen (I was a teen at the time) chat room. He showed interest in me and all. I was also playing my character there, especially as he was nice to me. At the time, I didn't think the 'net would be a source of liars or crazy people, since everyone around me was a teenager who acted "cool". Anyway, we kept on communicating via the 'net and he even gave me his number, even though I never called. I would press for his pictures all the time. He would make excuses that he had none. I believed him all that while, except he kept making promises. Then one day, he just came out and shared his pic with me. I was expecting a handsome guy, in shape, but boy was I wrong. This guy was huge and had this thick glasses on. He described himself as ugly, worthless . . . the way he wrote his confession was just so funny. He confessed to me that he had the pics but was too shy to share it. I LMAO! 😀 I then proceeded to advice him to cut down if he really wanted to look good enough to be presentable. He was still an internet friend to me, since I had grown fond of him. My favourite female chat room friend just joined in the laughter and revealed to me that she was aware that he looked that way, which is why she was always hesitant when I showed interest in him. It was so funny at the end. I had so much fun at that chat room, and that event was part of the fun. For the most part, though, the guys on there were not overweight and were decent looking.
FelixDeCat
Lifer
Was she a legless crack whore?
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