This is wrong for the reasons I gave in my previous post. It isn't guess work; it's physics. More surface area = greater dissipation.
The CPU maker provides a given surface area which, presumably, they have tested and verified as sufficient for the CPU chip. Using all of it doesn't cost anything so NOT using all of it is stupid because doing so could degrade the thermal transfer from the CPU package to the HS/fan.
It's like the seat belt in your car. You may not need it, even if you're in a crash, but you won't find out until you're in a crash where you would have been hurt if you weren't using it.
But the silicon chip itself, the part that generates heat, does not cover the entire surface of the metal heat spreader. The heat spreader will spread some of the heat across its entire surface. However, I think for your position to be 100% true, you would need to rely on the assumption that the heat spreader can spread the heat more efficiently than a heat sink. For very expensive heatsinks, are you sure this is the case? could it be possible that a heatsink is better at conducting heat than the heat spreader on top of your silicon CPU chip?
I think there are factors that go into the design of the heat spreader of a chip that are not related to heat conduction, such as being there to protect the silicon surface. Perhaps that makes it a bit less-optimal as a heat spreader, and even less-optimal as a heatsink due to its need for being strong/protective. I'm playing devil's advocate here, what are your thoughts (especially whether you think a heat spreader can be less efficient than a heat sink).
In summary, could it be possible that an ideal heatsink covering less than the entire surface of the heat spreader on top of the silicon chip (e.g., covering a bit more than the footprint of the underlying silicon chip), could that be just as good as if it were covering the entire heat spreader?
Also, are you saying that the heat spreader makes the chip cooler, compared to when the heat spreader is removed to allow the silicon to directly contact the heatsink? I mean, it seems the direct connection would involve less surface area, because the heat spreader increases surface area, right? Or, what if you used a slightly smaller heat spreader, etc.?
I think there might be an example or two where someone pulled off the heat spreader and did a direct connection between chip and heatsink, so maybe that could shed some light.