The gov. used to erase their tapes by overwriting them with various patterns of ones and zeroes. something like this:
first run through: 0000 0000, 0000 0001, 0000 0010, 0000 0011, etc.
second run through: 0000 0001, 0000 0010, 0000 0011, 0000 0100, etc.
third: 0000 0010, 0000 0011, 0000 0100, 0000 0101, etc.
fourth: 0000 0011, 0000 0100, 0000 0101, 000 0111, etc.
I think you see the pattern. Eventually, every part of the tape would have had 0000 0000 all the way through to 1111 1111 written on it.
If the government was comfortable with overwriting the data repeatedly to eliminate all the data, your dad should be too.
I would run a defrag that wipes all the clean space (changes it all to 0's), such as norton speed disk. Then delete everything from the drive and do that again, now the whole drive should be all 0000 0000's. Load up the drive, just copy CDs or whatever you have onto it. Then delete everything and do the defrag thing again.
Then use a program which writes all 1111 1111 to the drive, format it, load it up again (with different data), delete everything, defrag and wipe it with 1111 1111 again.
Time consuming I know, but guaranteed to be very secure. There is of course a more secure option: drill a hole in the platters and drop it in the ocean.