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Best mate's sister and me.....(please read)

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DaLeroy

Golden Member
Hi guys

I've got a bit of a problem...I'm 19, and my best mates sister is 15. We've been 'going' out now for about 2 weeks, kissing etc. Now her folks are starting to realise something is happening (haven't told them, because they would KILL me) and aren't letting her go anywhere with me....

My mate wants me to just leave it for half a year/a year till she's 16, or to tell his folks. Trouble is, what am I mean to do...I can't just walk away and leave it for a year, life doesn't work like that, and I definatly can't tell his folks, because i'm 99% sure they would be very very annoyed at me....
anyone got any ideas??
Thanks

Leroy
 
Wait til she's old enough to realize such an age gap at this young age is wrong.


This'll probably be when she's 20, and you're 24.

 
15 is way too young for a 19 year-old.

When I was 19, if I was dating a 15 year-old, I'd never hear the end of it from my buddies.
 
Inappropriate. Of all the girls in the world, about 0.00000001% should be off-limits: your family, your boss' family, and girls under 17. That's not very many to stay away from.

You might want to be with her, but you can't. You'll meet another girl.
 
Dude Im in the same boat as you Im 33 and my girlfriend is 15 and now I think my wife is going to find out please what do I do??????????????????????hehehehehe
 
true, but i've had alot of girlfriends, etc, and this one is different, not like all the others ones 🙁

I know it's four years, but we do get on really well....as for my mates, I thought they would laugh at me, but they actually haven't, surprisingly...Trouble is, being my best mates sister, I walk away, and I can't really visit him that much, specially if she is there....why the heck did I get myself into this mess.....🙁
 
You are heading for trouble, you are an adult and she is a minor, be a real man and date a woman not a girl!
 
You do need to wait until she's an adult, or at least an age her parents would approve of her seeing you. If there really is something special there, it will still be there in a few years.
 
Unless you live in Hawaii (the "legal" age for consent there is 15), you are heading for deep trouble.

If it's "true love", it will stand the test of time. For both of your sakes, run away from this relationship.
 
this may seem really mushy and stuff, but if you really like her that much,... tell her parents you like her, and slow the reltionship down to just "special friends" holding hands at a max... and be more open about your activities with her 'rents... if all goes well, in a year or two you guys can be closer again...
 
I'm with you friend on this one ... you need to talk to this girl ... tell her you really care for her which is why you want to go about this the right way ... tell her you want to chill on the kissing, and holding hands part and want to explore your friendship for the next six months. Then when she turns 16 you and her can go to her parents and tell them that you have feelings for each other and would like to have their permission to date. This is the only way you will ever have a happy ending with this girl ... any other way you do it will end up in a bad scene and hurt feelings. Explain to the girl that the reason you want to back off is because you care about her so much and you respect her, her brother and her parents. My fiance is 4 and a half years older than me ... but ofcourse we didnt meet until I was 21. I wish you the best of luck. I will keep you two in my prayers 🙂
 
If you keep dating her, you should changer your name to DaLoser. It's bad, bad news. She's still a girl, no matter how large her breasts are or how "mature" she pretends to be.

Your relationship will not only hurt her, but her relationship with her parents if she starts lying to them in order to see you.

Be a man. Find someone your own age.
 
sweetrobin...that does sound like the best advice, i think i'll have to go that way...i'll hopefully be talking to her tomorrow, so i'll keep you updated....

as for the jailbait comment.....i think i'll be receiving a visit from the men in blue soon....was talking to her brother yesterday (we went and played some pool) and we got into a small argument about it...dropped him off and then dropped my brother off and dropped a burnout in front of my place (was very annoyed 🙁 now the neighbours are threatening to call the police... oh well, i've only got one point to go on my license anyway, and i've lost it... 🙂 life can be cruel sometimes, or should I say, I make my life cruel sometimes...
 
"madmacks, yeah, she's got all the 'rite' bits.... very lovely in fact"

DUDE, you are talking about a CHILD!!!

I'm with mansnake... Be a man.
 
yeah, im with mansnake and yakko, step away for the six months at least, if she can't understand than she is too imature, and how 19 are you? like a week?? or 7-12 months? if you like just turned 19 and she's been 15 and its closer to like 3yrs and a few months. . . well court no like at all, wait. . . i had a friend who went for a 12yr, but he was 15 at time. . .and we ranked on him still. . .
 
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