dank69: I do realize there are limitations, but you lost me when you inferred that I know how far everyone has progressed. That seems like a non sequitur to me so I'll need clarification.
M: You made the absolute statement that everybody rationalizes from time to time but that there is a cure for this when one sees the danger of it. This implies that nobody has ever fully realized the danger and has fully stopped doing it. In order to make those two statements factual would imply that you personally had used your understanding of the danger of rationalization to reduce your irrationality to the bare minimum possible and that, further, you also know personally that everybody else has either reduced their level of irrationality to the same point or greater if in fact nobody ever is free of it.
I am saying, then, that you are making a claim that nobody can actually logically make, leaving open the possibility that your claim that when you use words like objective reality, you might not actually be objective, but objectivity might still exist. You assume but do not really know that there are none who have seen into themselves so deeply and have become so deeply aware of the rationalization danger that they have fully awakened and I don’t know either. But I have my suspicions and they don’t seem as certain as yours.
d: If we can't observe something and can't measure it then I would argue that we don't really "know" anything about it.
M: My point was that whenever people talk about reality, they unconsciously assume that what they say they see is reality. My contention is that one can only see reality if one has no unconscious assumptions.
d: I don't have your answer for you. Venom and bile don't work. Sugar and spice doesn't work. You can't help someone that does not want to be helped. The best you can do is wait until they have their own epiphany, and understand that that epiphany may never come.
M: Indeed. But what do we do with that realization, how do we react?
My journey seems to me to have gone something like this: I used to be just a normal kin, asleep to the emotional world within me, but I begin to show symptoms that something troubling and disquieting was happening within. I began to be angry rebellious and depresses which led to deep sadness and hopelessness. Insights made possible from reading Zen literature helped me with that and via therapy I started to deal with the anger and rage. That opened the door to grief and the inner experience that it is healing. And since I feel your anger and rage I just want you to know that, that life is good and there is a road that leads up hill. Love you dank, in the small way open to me.