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imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: datalink7
So anyway.... how much was it again to be "serviced" by one of your friend?

:D

Well, since other offers have been retracted, I'll offer you the special for 25-cents. :D

:Q but I don't wanna service datalink7 :Q :(

Cheers,
Aquaman ;)

Come here big boy! You better not make me regret that .25 cents!

;):Q

:Q :Q :Q

No Gloove No Love :p

Cheers,
Aquaman

Hmm... I seem to be out of gloves. Will a cloak and wizards hat work? :D

Role-playing... kinky. :D
 

eakers

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email his prof and show him your email correspondence.

this isn't very good research for a thesis.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: eakers
email his prof and show him your email correspondence.

this isn't very good research for a thesis.

Do it :evil:

Cheers,
Aquaman

LOL... okay, okay, I'm working on it. *still researching* :D I don't think I'll subject him to the wrath/logic of ATOT-ers, because some of you are a little TOO creative when it comes to tormenting people (i.e. eBay trolls, etc.), but it's good to know that if I need help, I'll know where to turn. :p
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: Moralpanic
You do have a penchant for attention from the atot community from some of your previous threads. Also it seems you have a habit of posting about people doing what they like to do and making a ton of money (ie your break-dancing friend and the Justin Timberlake). As a result, it doesn't surprise me that you're trying to make some $$$$ off by the tickets. I don't know if you posted that offer anywhere but remember ATOT has 100k members and who knows how many lurkers. You're bound to get a wacked response from someone.

And people that post pics of their car, YAGT threads, pics of their prom, about their food, etc aren't doing it for attention? Why is it when a female here discusses anything personal, they're attention whore?

You're making a generalization. Maybe you missed some of Dezign's more unusual threads? Like the whole Simone Koo model thread that has been deleted by the mods. Or how about "my father is a computer programmer and it looks like MS has stolen his idea..." Better yet the thread about Dezign's rich acquaintance who is evading taxes that she considered the thought of reporting? Doesn't that seem a little unusual to the car pics, YAGTs, pics of their prom, food etc.

I dont know about anyone else but that strikes me as a little odd? Now the threads I've talked about are in the minority compared with the regular threads Dezign posts about.
 
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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: eakers
email his prof and show him your email correspondence.

this isn't very good research for a thesis.

Do it :evil:

Cheers,
Aquaman

LOL... okay, okay, I'm working on it. *still researching* :D I don't think I'll subject him to the wrath/logic of ATOT-ers, because some of you are a little TOO creative when it comes to tormenting people (i.e. eBay trolls, etc.), but it's good to know that if I need help, I'll know where to turn. :p

You tease. :p

- M4H
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: eakers
email his prof and show him your email correspondence.

this isn't very good research for a thesis.

Do it :evil:

Cheers,
Aquaman

LOL... okay, okay, I'm working on it. *still researching* :D I don't think I'll subject him to the wrath/logic of ATOT-ers, because some of you are a little TOO creative when it comes to tormenting people (i.e. eBay trolls, etc.), but it's good to know that if I need help, I'll know where to turn. :p

You tease. :p

- M4H

:lips::heart:;)



:brokenheart:



:p

No luck yet, still poking around on google...
 
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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: eakers
email his prof and show him your email correspondence.

this isn't very good research for a thesis.

Do it :evil:

Cheers,
Aquaman

LOL... okay, okay, I'm working on it. *still researching* :D I don't think I'll subject him to the wrath/logic of ATOT-ers, because some of you are a little TOO creative when it comes to tormenting people (i.e. eBay trolls, etc.), but it's good to know that if I need help, I'll know where to turn. :p

You tease. :p

- M4H

:lips::heart:;)



:brokenheart:



:p

No luck yet, still poking around on google...

Google? Amateur. Give me two minutes with his email headers and IP address.

- M4H
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: Dezign

Uh.... you sound confused. Did you read any of my other threads?

I offered the tickets up for the "most creative" offer on an Internet barter/swap site. I would go, except I'm going to fly to Vegas to spend time with some friends who just got back from the Middle East (all are safe, one was just shot in the butt).

This guy offered $3,000 which caught my attention because it was way above and beyond the other offers I'd received (beats a $50 and Sony TV or Elton John merchandise :p ).

How does being curious about the most generous offer make me "want money"?

o_O

And thank you for pointing out my "penchant for attention".
rolleye.gif
I share interesting tidbits from my life and enjoy commenting/trying to help others who do. Isn't that what this place is for?

Maybe I am confused? I most certainly can't keep up with everyone's threads. Curious about the most generous offer is fine, but from the Justin Timerblake thread where your friend was teaching him how to break and other one where another b-boy you know was making a ton of dough it seems to me, possibly to no one else :) that you wish for more money more frequently than some other posters? *shurgs* I guess its just me.

Sure ATOT is the place to share interesting tidbits, but like the Simone Koo thread (which I honestly dont know htf that got all wierded out), your dad who is a computer programmer that had an idea possibly stolen by MS, and your rich acquaintance who makes a ton of dough but evades taxes. Im a skeptical person and those threads seem more than a little unusual. Again it could be just me *shurgs*

If you're going to reply to this response, pm me cause I dont want to crap up this thread by adding more replies.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Storm
Originally posted by: Dezign

Uh.... you sound confused. Did you read any of my other threads?

I offered the tickets up for the "most creative" offer on an Internet barter/swap site. I would go, except I'm going to fly to Vegas to spend time with some friends who just got back from the Middle East (all are safe, one was just shot in the butt).

This guy offered $3,000 which caught my attention because it was way above and beyond the other offers I'd received (beats a $50 and Sony TV or Elton John merchandise :p ).

How does being curious about the most generous offer make me "want money"?

o_O

And thank you for pointing out my "penchant for attention".
rolleye.gif
I share interesting tidbits from my life and enjoy commenting/trying to help others who do. Isn't that what this place is for?

Maybe I am confused? I most certainly can't keep up with everyone's threads. Curious about the most generous offer is fine, but from the Justin Timerblake thread where your friend was teaching him how to break and other one where another b-boy you know was making a ton of dough it seems to me, possibly to no one else :) that you wish for more money more frequently than some other posters? *shurgs* I guess its just me.

Sure ATOT is the place to share interesting tidbits, but like the Simone Koo thread (which I honestly dont know htf that got all wierded out), your dad who is a computer programmer that had an idea possibly stolen by MS, and your rich acquaintance who makes a ton of dough but evades taxes. Im a skeptical person and those threads seem more than a little unusual. Again it could be just me *shurgs*

If you're going to reply to this response, pm me cause I dont want to crap up this thread by adding more replies.

Heh... you say

Maybe I am confused? I most certainly can't keep up with everyone's threads Curious about the most generous offer is fine, but from the Justin Timerblake thread where your friend was teaching him how to break and other one where another b-boy you know was making a ton of dough it seems to me, possibly to no one else :) that you wish for more money more frequently than some other posters? *shurgs* I guess its just me.

Sure ATOT is the place to share interesting tidbits, but like the Simone Koo thread (which I honestly dont know htf that got all wierded out), your dad who is a computer programmer that had an idea possibly stolen by MS, and your rich acquaintance who makes a ton of dough but evades taxes. Im a skeptical person and those threads seem more than a little unusual. Again it could be just me *shurgs*

If you're going to reply to this response, pm me cause I dont want to crap up this thread by adding more replies.[/quote]

You're doing a heckuva job with all of mine. ;):D I don't post as much about my personal life anymore because I got so much heat from people like you... I'll share stories with my friends, but aside from that, only the really weird stuff that I think some ATOT-ers might find amusing (i.e. this situation).

Just accept the fact my life is different than yours and leave it at that. If you find the "minority" of the posts I begin so unusual, just don't click on them. :p
 

Brutuskend

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I thought you were going to say he was preferring MALE company since he was willing to pay more if YOU went with him than he was if a WOMAN went with him.

Weird.....

EDIT: DHuuuuu silly me, you ARE a woman.

(Been a long day.....)
 

imported_Tomato

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Rough draft of an e-mail to his supervisor (thanks to the help of some extremely well-spoken/written ATOT-ers :D ):

Dear Sir,

My name is [DEZIGN], and I was recently contacted by one of your students in a deceptive and emotionally distressful manner for "research purposes" and was told, at the end of the coercion:

"Congratulations. You have just made my Thesis on Ethical Judgment on the Electronic Super Highway."

The story in a nutshell: I obtained 2 tickets to the 2003 MTV Movie Awards, and offered them to an Internet community in a barter/swap section.

The following sequence of events then occurred:

1. David D. (d@ict.usc.edu) e-mails me offering me $3,000 for the tickets.

2. I was suspicious and asked what the catch was, and he informed me he'd pay me the full amount provided his female friend could join him.

3. I felt bad accepting so much, and after seeing his e-mail address ended in usc.edu, figured he was a student. I suggested if he and his friend could come up with $1,000, the tickets would be theirs.

4. He then wrote back and told me his friend wouldn't be able to make it... and would I accompany him to the Awards if he paid me $2500?

5. I told him no (as I'm planning on going to Vegas with some friends who recently returned from combat in the Middle East), but told him that one of my female friends might be able to go with him, as a favor to me. It would definitely be up to my girl friends whether or not they would go with David; a number of them, like myself, are always open to meeting new people, especially in a place like LA where none of us are originally from.

6. David then tells me he'll give me $1,000 for the tickets, and $400 for the "entertainment" of my friend.

7. I wrote back and firmly told him no, the $1,400 is for the tickets ONLY, but that one of my girl friends might be able to go with him and hopefully they'd have a good time together (I said that with innocent intentions in mind, and actually know a lot of girls who'd think such a blind date WOULD be fun and a "good time").

8. David was very insistent upon having a date, and I told him that yes, I could probably find one of my girlfriends interested in attending the Awards show with him... after all, I'm sure I can find a friend willing to go out on a blind date to the MTV movie awards.

9. Then, David drops "the bomb" on me: He is actually a student doing his thesis on "Morals on the Internet Superhighway" or something to that effect, implies he's going to use his correspondance with me as an example of one with few, and writes me the following e-mail:

From: "David D." <d@ict.usc.edu>
To: "'Dezign '"
Subject: RE: MTV movie Tickets
Date: Wed, 28 May 2003 17:25:16 -0700

You are absolutely correct. You never said they would sleep with me. So you are not a Pimp. But you are still willing to run an escort service for money. Except unlike real escort services you were not going to pay your employees. In fact you said "1400 is just for the tickets, my girl friend would be doing me a favor by going out and having a good time." And after all escorts do not necessarily have sex. But they take dates for money.

-----Original Message-------- "David D." <d@ict.usc.edu> wrote:
> Congratulations. You have just made my Thesis on
> Ethical Judgment on the Electronic Super Highway.
> You and your "Fun loving" friends. Makes me wonder
> what you would have offered me if say we had been
> talking about 40,000 dollars. I hope that give you
> something to think about.;)



In my opinion, David D.'s logic is extremely poor, and I am concerned how much of his conclusions are based upon groundless assumptions.

I believe David should be reported because he conned me into being a subject for his experiment and wasted my time, my energy, and others' time. He also caused me a significant amount of emotional distress, as his accusations do not even remotely begin to reflect my moral/ethical standing. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe this constitutes an ethical violation.

David coerced me into a position you would not have originally taken. In my opinion, this makes his "research" misleading and unsubstantiated.

I believe now may be a good time for David to learn about ethics in research, before he obtains funding to start having "fun" with larger numbers of subjects/unwilling participants/victims. He also needs to learn the difference between research and coercion.

I would be appalled if the "research" David has done is applied to his thesis and published - his means of collecting research are far from ethical/scientific/accurate, and science should not be based on assumptions and skewed methods of collecting data. This would be a disgrace to the academic community, and would reflect poorly on the name the instutition he represents, the University of Southern California.

A response would be appreciated, thank you.

Kind regards,
me :)



Thoughts?
 

Looney

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: NutBucket
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: KenGr
I think you should report this guy to his school.

He conned you into being a subject for his experiment and wasted your time and others time. I think that's an ethical violation.

He coerced you into a position you would not have originally taken. That makes his "research" complete BS.

Just tell his school that he's using their internet connection to solicit minors online. You must have one underage friend, Dezign ... ;)

- M4H

I'm sure she could easily get one.

I have a 17-year-old friend who turns 18 in July. She qualifies as a minor in California, right?

:Q

***CONFIRMED*** She's Jailbait!

- M4H

Hey, have you, like me, started looking at 14 year olds any differently since you found out that legal age of consent is 14 in Canada?
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Moralpanic
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: NutBucket
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: KenGr
I think you should report this guy to his school.

He conned you into being a subject for his experiment and wasted your time and others time. I think that's an ethical violation.

He coerced you into a position you would not have originally taken. That makes his "research" complete BS.

Just tell his school that he's using their internet connection to solicit minors online. You must have one underage friend, Dezign ... ;)

- M4H

I'm sure she could easily get one.

I have a 17-year-old friend who turns 18 in July. She qualifies as a minor in California, right?

:Q

***CONFIRMED*** She's Jailbait!

- M4H

Hey, have you, like me, started looking at 14 year olds any differently since you found out that legal age of consent is 14 in Canada?

Whoo boy... :D As this thread spins off into another tangent which will probably get it locked ;) , I'm going to proofread the above and then send it.
 

Looney

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Originally posted by: Storm
Originally posted by: Moralpanic
You do have a penchant for attention from the atot community from some of your previous threads. Also it seems you have a habit of posting about people doing what they like to do and making a ton of money (ie your break-dancing friend and the Justin Timberlake). As a result, it doesn't surprise me that you're trying to make some $$$$ off by the tickets. I don't know if you posted that offer anywhere but remember ATOT has 100k members and who knows how many lurkers. You're bound to get a wacked response from someone.

And people that post pics of their car, YAGT threads, pics of their prom, about their food, etc aren't doing it for attention? Why is it when a female here discusses anything personal, they're attention whore?

You're making a generalization. Maybe you missed some of Dezign's more unusual threads? Like the whole Simone Koo model thread that has been deleted by the mods. Or how about "my father is a computer programmer and it looks like MS has stolen his idea..." Better yet the thread about Dezign's rich acquaintance who is evading taxes that she considered the thought of reporting? Doesn't that seem a little unusual to the car pics, YAGTs, pics of their prom, food etc.

I dont know about anyone else but that strikes me as a little odd? Now the threads I've talked about are in the minority compared with the regular threads Dezign posts about.


As somebody who's been here since the old UBB days... no, it doesn't seem odd. It seems odd that you remember so much about what she does though.
:frown:
 
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Originally posted by: Moralpanic
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: NutBucket
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: KenGr
I think you should report this guy to his school.

He conned you into being a subject for his experiment and wasted your time and others time. I think that's an ethical violation.

He coerced you into a position you would not have originally taken. That makes his "research" complete BS.

Just tell his school that he's using their internet connection to solicit minors online. You must have one underage friend, Dezign ... ;)

- M4H

I'm sure she could easily get one.

I have a 17-year-old friend who turns 18 in July. She qualifies as a minor in California, right?

:Q

***CONFIRMED*** She's Jailbait!

- M4H

Hey, have you, like me, started looking at 14 year olds any differently since you found out that legal age of consent is 14 in Canada?

Considering I've known that since I was 14 myself - no. :p

And you're welcome for finding the admin's email address.

- M4H
 

Looney

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Moralpanic
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: NutBucket
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: KenGr
I think you should report this guy to his school.

He conned you into being a subject for his experiment and wasted your time and others time. I think that's an ethical violation.

He coerced you into a position you would not have originally taken. That makes his "research" complete BS.

Just tell his school that he's using their internet connection to solicit minors online. You must have one underage friend, Dezign ... ;)

- M4H

I'm sure she could easily get one.

I have a 17-year-old friend who turns 18 in July. She qualifies as a minor in California, right?

:Q

***CONFIRMED*** She's Jailbait!

- M4H

Hey, have you, like me, started looking at 14 year olds any differently since you found out that legal age of consent is 14 in Canada?

Considering I've known that since I was 14 myself - no. :p

And you're welcome for finding the admin's email address.

- M4H

Damn, lucky you!!! I've lost over a decade because of my ignorance :|