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My cousin is 27. He's a really smart kid and did really well in high school (honors classes, lots of AP's, high GPA, decent SAT's), and got into a good school. Pretty much was on the same path I was on, and we'd always talk about computers and math/science, and play video games online together when we were younger. I thought he was even smarter than me and was kind of jealous that he had me to talk to and compete against, and to get advice from, which gave him an advantage over others in his year. He entered college after me, but interested in the same major (comp sci).
But when he got to college, due to some family drama and him not being ready for life (and being depressed as a result) he flunked out. He ended up working some jobs since then that would typically require education but he was able to prove himself and learn on the job as he went along. He came to me for advice since he sees me as someone who used who is on the path he would have been on had he not rebelled and flunked out, but I know nothing about this so I'm posting here to see if anyone might have experience or know someone who came out of a similar situation.
Basically he wants to finish his education and go on to study something in the math and/or computer science world, and he wants his bachelor's from a decent university. How would he go about doing this? He actually did okay in several of his classes, but he failed mainly because he stopped going to a lot of his classes. Are there any places that would have information on what a student like him should do?
The best I can guess is that he'd have to go to a community college and then transfer to a university. How likely is that given that he has a lot of those bad grades from his first attempt at school? Are there any other options? Are there counselors out there who can give him info on the best approach? And second, is his life experience any help in applying?
Since flunking out he's worked some jobs as a programmer and from what he tells me has done pretty well for himself, and does better than a lot of the coworkers he comes across who finished their education. I'm not sure if this kind of experience would help at all in applying to schools for someone his age and in his position.
But when he got to college, due to some family drama and him not being ready for life (and being depressed as a result) he flunked out. He ended up working some jobs since then that would typically require education but he was able to prove himself and learn on the job as he went along. He came to me for advice since he sees me as someone who used who is on the path he would have been on had he not rebelled and flunked out, but I know nothing about this so I'm posting here to see if anyone might have experience or know someone who came out of a similar situation.
Basically he wants to finish his education and go on to study something in the math and/or computer science world, and he wants his bachelor's from a decent university. How would he go about doing this? He actually did okay in several of his classes, but he failed mainly because he stopped going to a lot of his classes. Are there any places that would have information on what a student like him should do?
The best I can guess is that he'd have to go to a community college and then transfer to a university. How likely is that given that he has a lot of those bad grades from his first attempt at school? Are there any other options? Are there counselors out there who can give him info on the best approach? And second, is his life experience any help in applying?
Since flunking out he's worked some jobs as a programmer and from what he tells me has done pretty well for himself, and does better than a lot of the coworkers he comes across who finished their education. I'm not sure if this kind of experience would help at all in applying to schools for someone his age and in his position.
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