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Legendary

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Under no circumstances do you reveal what happens at a bachelor party. Especially last minute 3somes. What's the point of a bachelor party if not for that? After you're married, you can still sneak off to see strippers and not feel guilty, but marriage effectively ends the anonymous 3some possibility.
 

rhatsaruck

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Originally posted by: Feldenak
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.
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Hey, you think the Maid of Honor is going to fess up to the fact that the bride went down on the minister?
 

Xstatic1

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everyone who attended was sworn to secrecy....the only time that should be broken is if the groom picked up a disease & passed it on to his wife. also, it's really up to him (the groom) to share what happened that night.

one of the bachelorette parties i attended, i admit to being a little irked when someone wanted to take pics--like oh geez, sooo not cool.
 

confused1234

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Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.

As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.

since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?
 

kami333

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Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.

As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.

since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?

Then maybe you shouldn't have sworn secrecy in the first place, at the very least.
 

CarlKillerMiller

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I'm pretty sure this guy isn't coming back.

And about him telling the bride: That's ridiculous. What happens stays vaulted. That's sorta half the point.
 

mpitts

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Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.

As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.

since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?

If you can't deal with this type of stuff happening, you shouldn't go to a bachelor party. Guys are idiots when there's a lot of booze and hot women willing to pleasure them for money.
 

thirdlegstump

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You're a piece of crap man. That's his choice and freedom and absolutely none of your business. Hell, maybe she even knew and was OK with it.
 

Compton

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Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.

As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.

since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?

Its not ok. Anyone who thinks its ok should not be getting married.
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: Compton
Its not ok. Anyone who thinks its ok should not be getting married.

oh so wrong you are. This is the last chance to get that last taste of fresh. After this there is no chance of experiencing that.

Bachelors parties are about getting your boy laid for the last time. That's just the way it is.

-edit- that's what the bachelor party is all about - getting your boy laid by some fresh. it's the last big woo-ha of singledom.
 

JujuFish

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Originally posted by: deathkoba
You're a piece of crap man. That's his choice and freedom and absolutely none of your business. Hell, maybe she even knew and was OK with it.

Yeah, I'd be surprised if most women didn't at least suspect what may really be going on at a bachelor party.
 

AccruedExpenditure

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Compton
Its not ok. Anyone who thinks its ok should not be getting married.

oh so wrong you are. This is the last chance to get that last taste of fresh. After this there is no chance of experiencing that.

Bachelors parties are about getting your boy laid for the last time. That's just the way it is.

-edit- that's what the bachelor party is all about - getting your boy laid by some fresh. it's the last big woo-ha of singledom.

Spidey gave me great advice about buying luggage, I therefore must assume all his advice is just as good. :beer:
 

Pacfanweb

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Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.

As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.

since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?
Whether it's okay or not is irrelevant. What is relevant is that it's none of anyone's business what went on at the bachelor party.
Furthermore, it's no one from the party's place to go blab to the bride about what went on.

 

miniMUNCH

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Cheating on your wife with a couple of hookers the day/week before your wedding is probably the most heartless, cruel thing you can do aside from kill her or shoot her/your children.

That being said...if you promised, you promised. I wouldn't say anything.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: Pacfanweb
Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: binister
Originally posted by: Syringer
What goes on at a bachelor's party stays in a bachelor's party.
As much as it pains me I have to agree with Syringer.
since when is it ok to sleep with other women when your about to get married?
Whether it's okay or not is irrelevant. What is relevant is that it's none of anyone's business what went on at the bachelor party.
Furthermore, it's no one from the party's place to go blab to the bride about what went on.
What if the roles were reversed? What if you/her contracted an STD? What if you got the hooker pregnant? What if she got pregnant?
 

djheater

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Originally posted by: blurredvision
If I'm understanding you correctly, I say let sleeping dogs lie.

I would too. You'd just be adding fuel. If she's not smart enough to dump him fonce, she won't be smart enough to dump him for cheating twice.
 

miniMUNCH

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When I got married I basically did not have a party... I did not want one.

That whole bit about the "last bit of fresh"... what a load of sh1t. Any bitch who'd fvck a guy who's getting married is not "fresh"; that's village whore material.
 

Kadarin

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Regardless of the morality of cheating on your future wife with a stripper... If you give your word and then go back on it, your word has now become worthless.