ATOT - wtf is wrong with me?

Schadenfreude · Aug 25, 2003

deerslayer · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: amcdonald
don't take that crap man... quit talking to her if she's going to act so evil towards you

Yep, otherwise she'll just keep on using you. I know a girl like this, and it will never end. You have to end it, or the games will keep on going.

MaxDepth · Aug 25, 2003

Are there any close friends, male or female, that can publicly humiliate you until you see that you are being used as someone's toilet paper?
The secret is that you don't have to get over her. Just put on the act that shows indifference and uncaring. It'll get easier to do, the more you do it.

And if you don't have any friends that'll help, then let me:
LOSER!

Rapidskies · Aug 25, 2003

If you can't stay away from her because you are to weak (I've been there before unfortunately), I would say move, change your phone #, and don't give it out to anybody that would give it to her. It sounds like a relationship that is pretty destructive in nature, and you will be saving yourself some grief if you get out of it PERMANENTLY. Not talking for a month is like saying, "I'll talk to you in a month". It needs to be permanent to do any good.

Howard · Aug 25, 2003

M4H: Vengeance booty!

Vic · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: crisp82
After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up

I never read these threads (much less post in them) but I gotta ask, why the fsck would you love a mind-twisting, head-gaming little immature bitch like that?
Grow up, grow some balls, and ditch that evil thing from your life now. Never speak with her or see her again. There is nothing to "get over." Or is that the kind of woman you would like to be your wife?
Exactly.

brigden · Aug 25, 2003

crisp82, I'm not going to judge why you fell in love with this woman in the first place. No one here can criticize you for that. I'm assuming this woman is your first love, right? Don't sweat it, all of our first loves are hard to get over. It took me over a year to get over mine. Wanna know what helped?

1.) Pussy. Lots of it.
2.) Maintain a positive attitude. Stop thinking pessimistically. It is not the end of the world. Years later you will forget her.
3.) Hang out with the lads. Fancy a bender? Nothing more fun than getting pie-eyed and flirting shamelessly with everything in a skirt.
4.) Lastly, the only true way to get over a women you once loved is to fall in love with another.

I have been with the most amazing woman for over a year now. Funny, I can't even remember what my ex and I used to talk about.

DISCLAIMER: Don't go "looking" for a girlfriend. You'll only frusterate yourself.

Encryptic · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: crisp82
It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.

CUT HER OFF. She's just messing with your head. If you're stupid enough to keep talking to her, then you're probably going to end up being led around by your balls if you aren't already. Just because she supposedly "truly knows you" and you "still love her" doesn't mean she's a good person for you. Cut her off, get over it and find someone else who isn't going to treat you like crap.

My dumbass brother went through the same crap with a girl just like her. The end result: The last I heard, He's STILL mooning over this chick, despite all the attendant drama, cheating, using him for money/sex/etc.

bolsen · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: crisp82
After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up

Sorry dude, but your her bitch. She's playing you.

Cut that crap off and get on with your life. It'll be tough, but it's worth it in the end.

Kadarin · Aug 25, 2003

The advice in this thread is unanimous, and for good reason. You are now nothing more than her emotional tampon, her "in case of emergency, break glass" backup. Women for some reason love to try to "stay friends" with their ex's, having no idea how much emotional destruction they leave in their immature wake.

Sid59 · Aug 25, 2003

go verbal postal on her. that should make you feel better and make her stay away.

hdeck · Aug 25, 2003

you are letting her use you. she doesn't have any feelings for you. find a new girl.

iotone · Aug 25, 2003

make her a booty call

boyRacer · Aug 25, 2003

*cough* whore *cough*

gopunk · Aug 25, 2003

i think it's pretty easy to see why you can't get over her...

cut off all communication immediately

DurocShark · Aug 25, 2003

Give in next time, then work her over like she's never been worked before. Then kick her butt out and never call her, never return her calls, nothing.

KingofBladez · Aug 25, 2003

yeah, what everyone else said.
Im in a similar situation myself, she keeps trying to talk to me, but I ignore her. I still kinda like her, but Ive forced myself to stop talking to her. My other friends think Im a dick for doing it, but Im more conscerned with maintaining my self-respect. I am nobody's bitch

Lonyo · Aug 25, 2003

Scrubs!

amnesiac · Aug 25, 2003

First, fix your grammar. It'll help you get a new girlfriend.

Second, STOP TALKING TO HER, YOU DUMBASS.

Of COURSE she'll keep taunting you if you sit there like a whiny little bitch and let her trample on your balls. It gives her a power trip and lets her know she's still in control. She obviously has major self-esteem issues, and so do you if you let her push you around like that.

The only way you'll get out of this cycle is if you either turn around and use her like the cheap whore that she is, or cut of ALL CONTACT IMMEDIATELY. Don't answer her phone calls, if you do by accident, tell her "I gotta go. Bye."
Be a jackass, even if it means acting out of character. She deserves no more than that.

Go out. Get new hobbies. Hang out with friends. Don't start looking for love again because you're not over her and that fact will ruin any new relationships you will try to establish with the opposite sex. This means do NOT go out on dates, do NOT get romantically involved. If you find some fresh meat at a bar willing to gobble your knobbin, go for it but don't start falling in love just yet.

You need time to heal, and having your ex-whore edging in on you again and again will just keep your wound gaping open.

moonshinemadness · Aug 25, 2003

Next time she comes round, get up out of your chair point to the door and say 'Hey B!tch there my balls your trampling on, get the hell out of my house your making it look untidy'

crisp82 · Aug 25, 2003

It would be nice if it were that simple. We went through alot together, and she has stood by me since we split up while my sister had 2 brain ops for tumours. She isn't a bad person, trust me, but she just keeps messing me around. Not to say that I never messed her around before, because I did, I just still love this girl after 11 months of being split up.
I think when I fall in love, I really fall in love, and give my all. She is all I know and all I want to know. I fvcking hate females

Ps. only the ones that mess me up/around

Ausm · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: crisp82
After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up

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Duh, stop talking to her. Jeez.

No $hit...drop her like a bad habit....

Ausm

Red Dawn · Aug 25, 2003

Just use her for Sport Fscking until you can find a new love!

Ameesh · Aug 25, 2003

Originally posted by: crisp82
It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.

you are a doormat right now, either you man up and DTB or you take it like the bitch you are. you control your life.

crisp82 · Aug 25, 2003

today is one of those days that Broohaha posted about a while back.

ATOT - wtf is wrong with me?

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