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crisp82

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After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up ;)
 
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amcdonald

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don't take that crap man... quit talking to her if she's going to act so evil towards you
 
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dabuddha

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Originally posted by: crisp82
After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up ;)
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Duh, stop talking to her. Jeez.
 
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PunDogg

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She does it cuz u let her do it, she's just playing with u, if she does stuff like that, u need to get her out of your life, cuz she will cause you more headaches than anything, i mean espically if she told you all those details and stuff, u have to be strong man, women know when your not strong, and they will take advantage of that

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filmmaker

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She's still using you for her emotional self. That's why you can't get over her. Cut her off completely, dive into something you enjoy, and wait for the next person to catch your eye.
 
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blackdogdeek

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1. do not talk to her and definitely don't fool around with her
2. find a new woman, asap!

follow those two steps and it will get better. you may never totally get over her, hell, i'm married and my first gf still has a soft spot in my heart, but it will definitely get better.

good luck
 
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crisp82

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It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.
 
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GoingUp

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Originally posted by: filmmaker
She's still using you for her emotional self. That's why you can't get over her. Cut her off completely, dive into something you enjoy, and wait for the next person to catch your eye.
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filmmaker

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Originally posted by: crisp82
It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.
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You may not realize it right now, but she's the one hurting you.
 
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PunDogg

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Originally posted by: filmmaker
Originally posted by: crisp82
It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.
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You may not realize it right now, but she's the one hurting you.
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Yeah true dat

Dogg
 
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Jzero

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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You can't get over her because you keep talking to her and listening to her escapades. Cut her off!
 
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Hammer

Lifer
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1. you're being used.
2. she doesn't really love you.

that's the reality of your situation.
 
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conjur

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Jun 7, 2001
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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: crisp82
After 11 months of being without my ex (well, we close friends now) why the fvck can I not get over here. She has put me through alot, and I mean alot. She has detailed to me who she has slept with since, told me that she still loves me, kissed me, toild me that we can't and won't ever get back together, and generally treats me as a 'back-up', so if she has no luck with getting a boyfriend, she contemplates getting back with me, and tells me about it, knowing that I still love her.

Why can I not get over here.

Ps. sorry for the long sentence, counldn't be bothered to split it up ;)
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Duh, stop talking to her. Jeez.
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No doubt.

Break off ALL contact!   NOW!
 
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codehack2

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Oct 11, 1999
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#1) Don't contact her

#2) Only be accessible for every 1 out of her 4 attempts to get contact you

#3) When you do talk to her, talk about yourself alot and all the cool things you have been doing, don't be afraid to embelish... and offer limited feedback on all the stuff she tells you. Whatever she tells you don't get upset or ask 20 questions.

You are the cake right now my friend and she is eating you whenever she wants.

CH2
 
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Jzero

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.
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Strong words from someone posting on an internet forum about how he's pining away over his ex-gf who plays him like a record.
 
dabuddha

dabuddha

Lifer
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Originally posted by: crisp82
It's hard to cut someone off when they are the only person who truely knows you, plus I still love her and don't want to hurt her.

Got off the phone from her about 5 mins ago, we not gonna see each other for a while, like a month.

I have some and will gladly use thm to kick ur arse if you like.
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LOL you claim to have some and will kick someone's "arse" over the internet but can't stop talking to a girl?
 
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conjur

No Lifer
Jun 7, 2001
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Originally posted by: codehack2
#1) Don't contact her

#2) Only be accessible for every 1 out of her 4 attempts to get contact you

#3) When you do talk to her, talk about yourself alot and all the cool things you have been doing, don't be afraid to embelish... and offer limited feedback on all the stuff she tells you. Whatever she tells you don't get upset or ask 20 questions.

You are the cake right now my friend and she is eating you whenever she wants.

CH2
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That should be 0 out of 4 and would, therefore, negate point #3!
 
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crisp82

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Apr 8, 2002
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Strong words from someone posting on an internet forum about how he's pining away over his ex-gf who plays him like a record.
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Sh!t loads of stress over this and some anger issues. Been close to beating the sh!t outta some guys lately, which is strange because i am real peaceable like.
 
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badluck

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Feb 19, 2001
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So you are man enough to beat up some guy, but can't break off ties with a chic? Be a man, handle your business, and get on with your life.

Not trying to be a dvck, but you've got to prioritize....(you asked ATOT what is wrong with you, this is your answer)
 
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crisp82

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I guess so. Always put her first, don't know how not too. Feeling like a sap enough over this, so only sensible suggestions need apply :)
 
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