Not to be shallow or anything but that means a bit of confidence. I'm just tired of friends who don't have a backbone.
You have 2 choices...
1.) Help them develope a backbone
2.) Ditch em'
Sup with the roomate Alfa?
Hmmm. The doctor is IN
What are said roomates hobbies? Is he fat? What do you see as his biggest flaw?
(besides lack of confidence?)
Hobbies: Reading
He doesn't do much besides school and work
He's super skinny.
Largest flaw? Not reading the whole story. Judging a book by it's cover
I'm fat (used to be really skinny) but throughout my whole life, I lacked confidence in social situations though I was a rock star academically. Eventually, as I got older, I saw that I really didn't have time to give a shit about what others thought and all I could do was try my best. It must have worked, as I actually got a social life and finally got married.
At some point, I just started realizing that conformity was not for me. I do great in social situations, as I am different in a refreshing way...I tell it like it is.
lol and he wears way too much holister
Slim fit jeans. EVERYONE SELLS THEM with no holes
I wish I could have my youth to live over knowing what I know now. It would be much different.
So Alfa. Your roomate is going to be sorely disappointed when he brings hs nose up from the grindstone to find that life passed him by. No kid gloves. Funny, he thinks he has something to lose by being "careful". Time to eliminate that attitude. Are you prepared to not speak to your roomate for ~6 months?
I buy whatever is cheap and fits. That's my buying system.
If that's for me i'm busy watching Oceans 13