++ ATOT official NEF thread part IV ++

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MotF Bane

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It has just occurred to me that I see nothing wrong with a married man (or, in the rare applicable cases, married woman) looking outside the marriage to satisfy their sexual needs.

With that being said, lying about it I do not find acceptable. I do see the paradox here, but the root then becomes that one or both partner(s) cannot meet each other's needs, and in an ideal situation (hahaha), would be understanding of one or both sating those needs outside of the marriage.

It is only a logical result.
 

Barfo

Lifer
Jan 4, 2005
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It has just occurred to me that I see nothing wrong with a married man (or, in the rare applicable cases, married woman) looking outside the marriage to satisfy their sexual needs.

With that being said, lying about it I do not find acceptable. I do see the paradox here, but the root then becomes that one or both partner(s) cannot meet each other's needs, and in an ideal situation (hahaha), would be understanding of one or both sating those needs outside of the marriage.

It is only a logical result.
Solution: Don't get married :p
 

IndyColtsFan

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Sep 22, 2007
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It has just occurred to me that I see nothing wrong with a married man (or, in the rare applicable cases, married woman) looking outside the marriage to satisfy their sexual needs.

With that being said, lying about it I do not find acceptable. I do see the paradox here, but the root then becomes that one or both partner(s) cannot meet each other's needs, and in an ideal situation (hahaha), would be understanding of one or both sating those needs outside of the marriage.

It is only a logical result.

As long as both agree, it probably isn't wrong. The issue is that most won't agree. :D
 

MotF Bane

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As long as both agree, it probably isn't wrong. The issue is that most won't agree. :D

Yep. In the vast majority of cases, it's the man who isn't satisfied, and the woman wouldn't even consider letting him look elsewhere. She'll usually take it as a "I'm not pretty" or a "you don't love me", and completely lose her mind.
 

Barfo

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