ATOT Brain Trust needed.....

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Accipiter22

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So last night I met a girl at the club, danced with her a lot, she came right out and said she was attracted. She's a communications major at a local university...End of night comes, I leave, her group of friends comes out after me, she says it was nice to meet me, I say it was nice to meet her...then I leave...WITHOUT GETTING HER NUMBER. I'm uber pissed cause this seemed right up my alley, and was attractive (no more 'why do fat girls like me' threads)

So this morning, I'm still stewing, but I'm researching graduate schools for psychology, since I kinda need to get on that. I'm looking at local schools, and I'm trying to get current student's opinions of the program, so I've been using myspace's search feature, and talking to people in the programs... (you can see where this is going).....I did a search this morning and on the FIRST FVCKING page of results for this college, that girl is there.....apparently she's a psychology minor, but didn't tell me...wtf do I do???? (don't say just leave it alone, cause I'm not going to)....like do I just randomly add her in a few days and then act like I didn't realize it was her if I talk to her in a little while?


EDIT: Got a reply! she sounded happy that I found her there....so no we'll see.
 
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Don't be a pvssy...contact her. Do you honestly need us to tell you that?
 
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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
yah I know to contact her, I just don't know WHAT to say
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ummmmmmm HI is a good start.
 
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DaiShan

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The fact that she didn't offer you her number should tell you something about the strength of your game.
 
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Originally posted by: JDrake
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
yah I know to contact her, I just don't know WHAT to say
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ummmmmmm HI is a good start.
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wow dude you really know the ladies don't you? ;)
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I can talk to them, and one usually starts off with a greeting of some kind.....correct?
 
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MageXX9

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Wow, this is pretty much a no brainer. Add her, and then msg her saying "Hi". That is, if she doesn't message you first.

If there's anything there, it'll take off like a lit match to gas.
 
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Accipiter22

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Hey, I'm looking at ******* and a couple other schools for grad programs in psych so I'm looking for people that are majoring/minoring in it to get their opinions on the program...

But actually your picture stood out when I just searched now for psych ppl from ******.....I'm like 95% certain I just met you last night at Rain! (if not's not you I totally apologize!)....I think at the end of the night I was outside looking for my friend and you said nice to meet you, and like an idiot I didn't even ask for you number

I prrrrrrromise I'm not stalking you or something creepy... I didn't even know you were a psych minor, (again if you are the girl I'm thinking of)
 
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Take away the last line.
If she blows you off, whatever, if not, then :thumbsup:
She probably wouldn't consider the stalker thing if you don't mention it.
 
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Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: Lonyo
Take away the last line.
If she blows you off, whatever, if not, then :thumbsup:
She probably wouldn't consider the stalker thing if you don't mention it.
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you don't think so? I definetly think that would be one of the first things on her mind.....If I was a girl I would...that's why I'm hemming and hawing about this, I know how odd it is
 
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Jassi

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Originally posted by: DaiShan
The fact that she didn't offer you her number should tell you something about the strength of your game.
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Ok, even I know thats stupid (unless you are being sarcastic). Girls will rarely give out their own number because it can give the wrong impression. The rule of the game is, get their number. If you give them yours and don't grab theirs, you are already on a losing path. Whoever has the contact info has the upper hand. This may not be true all of the time but it makes sense to me.

As for the op, be honest. I found someone I connected with over a year ago by scoping out bands at a local venue. The last names of the lead singer matched hers so I checked myspace and she turned out to be in the band and the lead singer's sister. I am still chicken to message or anything but I am a (secret) fan of their really god music.

:beer: Here's to hoping you can muster more courage than I could.

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: Lonyo
Take away the last line.
If she blows you off, whatever, if not, then :thumbsup:
She probably wouldn't consider the stalker thing if you don't mention it.
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you don't think so? I definetly think that would be one of the first things on her mind.....If I was a girl I would...that's why I'm hemming and hawing about this, I know how odd it is
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Well, be honest when and if she asks you. Co-incidences happen and I could tell you 2 occasions where something even more unlikely and weird happened and 2 girls were creeped out. I was honest and we had a good laugh on both occasions.
 
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Just go.

Hi,

I was the guy dancing with you last night. I was a bone head and didn't ask for your number. Can I have your number?

[insert your name]

Side note HOW can you NOT remember to get girls number you liked?!!!!!!

Koing

 
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Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: Jassi
Originally posted by: DaiShan
The fact that she didn't offer you her number should tell you something about the strength of your game.
Click to expand...

Ok, even I know thats stupid (unless you are being sarcastic). Girls will rarely give out their own number because it can give the wrong impression. The rule of the game is, get their number. If you give them yours and don't grab theirs, you are already on a losing path. Whoever has the contact info has the upper hand. This may not be true all of the time but it makes sense to me.

As for the op, be honest. I found someone I connected with over a year ago by scoping out bands at a local venue. The last names of the lead singer matched hers so I checked myspace and she turned out to be in the band and the lead singer's sister. I am still chicken to message or anything but I am a (secret) fan of their really god music.

:beer: Here's to hoping you can muster more courage than I could.

EDIT:

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: Lonyo
Take away the last line.
If she blows you off, whatever, if not, then :thumbsup:
She probably wouldn't consider the stalker thing if you don't mention it.
Click to expand...

you don't think so? I definetly think that would be one of the first things on her mind.....If I was a girl I would...that's why I'm hemming and hawing about this, I know how odd it is
Click to expand...

Well, be honest when and if she asks you. Co-incidences happen and I could tell you 2 occasions where something even more unlikely and weird happened and 2 girls were creeped out. I was honest and we had a good laugh on both occasions.
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:) :) I got a reply, she sounded happy i found her!
 
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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
yah I know to contact her, I just don't know WHAT to say
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Hello <insert name of future victim>:

We met the other night at <insert club name>. By meet, I rather mean I too was at the club, spotted you across the dance floor, and imagined a bit of fictitious conversation. You mostly spoke of your attraction to my averted eyes, and how the stunning reflection off my greasy hair reminded you Rome, and the way the sun hits the buildings in the afternoon. I liked that.

Actually, if truth be told, I wasn?t at the club at all. Instead, I was in the basement of my parent?s home where I hacked into the wireless video system of said club. Their security is so weakly implemented, and if I hadn?t found the access key on some message board, it would have taken only a few hours to crack.

If you've read this far, and would like to suffer through yet more of this fabulous torture, please do not hesitate to contact me further.

I anxiously await (but do not ever expect to receive) your reply.

Very truly yours,

<insert name. your own name given at birth, not your Anandtech login, nor your lvl. 60 WoW Character's name>
 
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Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
yah I know to contact her, I just don't know WHAT to say
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Hello <insert name of future victim>:

We met the other night at <insert club name>. By meet, I rather mean I too was at the club, spotted you across the dance floor, and imagined a bit of fictitious conversation. You mostly spoke of your attraction to my averted eyes, and how the stunning reflection off my greasy hair reminded you Rome, and the way the sun hits the buildings in the afternoon. I liked that.

Actually, if truth be told, I wasn?t at the club at all. Instead, I was in the basement of my parent?s home where I hacked into the wireless video system of said club. Their security is so weakly implemented, and if I hadn?t found the access key on some message board, it would have taken only a few hours to crack.

If you've read this far, and would like to suffer through yet more of this fabulous torture, please do not hesitate to contact me further.

I anxiously await (but do not ever expect to receive) your reply.

Very truly yours,

<insert name. your own name given at birth, not your Anandtech login, nor your lvl. 60 WoW Character's name>
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LMAO
 
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DaiShan

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Originally posted by: Jassi
Originally posted by: DaiShan
The fact that she didn't offer you her number should tell you something about the strength of your game.
Click to expand...

Ok, even I know thats stupid (unless you are being sarcastic). Girls will rarely give out their own number because it can give the wrong impression. The rule of the game is, get their number. If you give them yours and don't grab theirs, you are already on a losing path. Whoever has the contact info has the upper hand. This may not be true all of the time but it makes sense to me.
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Guys like you are the reason that other guys are so successful. Thanks. BTW, congrats OP hope it works out.
 
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Myspace is great, i met 2 girls and had sex with them in a week....

that's what i would said if i wasn't married and want to get some easy lay.
 
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Jassi

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Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: Jassi
Originally posted by: DaiShan
The fact that she didn't offer you her number should tell you something about the strength of your game.
Click to expand...

Ok, even I know thats stupid (unless you are being sarcastic). Girls will rarely give out their own number because it can give the wrong impression. The rule of the game is, get their number. If you give them yours and don't grab theirs, you are already on a losing path. Whoever has the contact info has the upper hand. This may not be true all of the time but it makes sense to me.
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Guys like you are the reason that other guys are so successful. Thanks. BTW, congrats OP hope it works out.
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Care to elaborate?
 
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