Personally, I prefer a stick, even in my everyday car. My current everyday car is an automatic and the transmission is the only thing that I dislike about it. Even in stop and go traffic I don't notice that much difference since an automatic means I have to keep my foot on the brake instead of the clutch, so all it really does is change which pedal gets held down. Even learning how to drive a stick shift isn't that hard; it only takes an hour or so to achieve reasonable smoothness. (It did probably help that I'd been riding motorcycles before I drove a manual transmission car, so I was already familiar with how to operate a manual transmission and I just needed to get accustomed to different controls.)
Still, even with that said, the majority of people find an automatic to be much more convenient and I can't fault them for that. Even with older cars, the difference in fuel mileage between an automatic and a manual is essentially academic. In the real world your driving style will play a much larger role than the transmission. As far as the push start ability of a manual goes, frankly it's so incredibly unlikely to ever be useful that one would have to be a fool to even consider it as important. Just carry a set of jumper cables in your trunk instead.
In short, if you want a manual, go ahead and get it. It's a nice skill to have and if you're the type who is (as I am) willing to trade convenience for a little more control then a manual can make sense. However, there's nothing at all wrong with automatics and they definitely make things more convenient. An automatic also leaves your shifting hand free, which is especially convenient when dating... 😉
ZV