• We’re currently investigating an issue related to the forum theme and styling that is impacting page layout and visual formatting. The problem has been identified, and we are actively working on a resolution. There is no impact to user data or functionality, this is strictly a front-end display issue. We’ll post an update once the fix has been deployed. Thanks for your patience while we get this sorted.

Asked her to prom today!

Page 3 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.
You don't need advice. You already accomplished the hard part and it doesn't hurt you know her pretty well from being friends. You can see if she acts normally or not, then you'll know if she wants to go further (I guess this is advice)... but anyway... I just wanted to say congrats.
 
Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
Originally posted by: MacGaven
Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
and no, no pics! Maybe you give advice, then you might get pics.

For all that is holy, do NOT post pictures of this girl. This would only lead to geeks fantasizing about her and judging her.

If she ever found out, if her friends ever found out, if her family ever found out, you would be dead and would look like the biggest dork/jerk in the world.

No kidding, I'm looking for advice, but I'm not that f'ing dumb.


OMG! There's one smart enough here to possibly reproduce in the future😀

You seem pretty smart to me,the only advice I'd give you is to just try to relax and enjoy your prom🙂
 
I'm a fan of the "hang-out-with-her-on-a-couple-date-like-nights-then-go-for-the-kiss-then-be-honest-the-relationship" approach.

Is she a senior? Do you plan on taking this relationship to college? Otherwise, you may want to be honest, that you're not in the place to have a serious relationship right now, but you'd like to have an informal one because you just have such a dog-gone good time with her.

Hehe... if you happen to get the jackpot, you'll get the emotional bond (and the nookie) without the strings attached 😉. Haha
 
Go for it.
Girls are for more horny than most geeks realize.


Oh and:


PICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by: KnickNut3
I'm a fan of the "hang-out-with-her-on-a-couple-date-like-nights-then-go-for-the-kiss-then-be-honest-the-relationship" approach.

Is she a senior? Do you plan on taking this relationship to college? Otherwise, you may want to be honest, that you're not in the place to have a serious relationship right now, but you'd like to have an informal one because you just have such a dog-gone good time with her.

Hehe... if you happen to get the jackpot, you'll get the emotional bond (and the nookie) without the strings attached 😉. Haha

Actually we're both juniors, and I like this girl enough to try to be serious about it. I know you all think high school relationships are bunk anyway, but hey, my parents met in high school, and look how it worked out for them 🙂
 
hs relationship ain't sh*t... I met my gf since 10th grade, now we are both in the same college the 2nd year.. we are goin' good 🙂... there is not a definate way to go.. you just have to know her feeling well.. don't do something she doesn't like.. talk more.
 
i think the advice you've been given thus far is good. just take her our before the prom. in fact, take her out this weekend. hell, call her now!
 
Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
Today I asked the girl I've liked for a while to prom (got a big YES, wooohoo!). She's pretty, funny, all that good stuff. We've known each other for a while, and I was wondering how to show her that I want to be "more than friends". I don't want to come on too strong, but I don't want to sit back and let it stagnate. Any advice will be greatly appreciated 🙂


At first read, it thought it was "asked her to do pron today"
 
Back
Top