Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Where is the 25 year old female?
here! well i'll be 25 on friday.
i turned 25 last thursday.
so ha.
i win.
i turned 25 last thursday.
so ha.
i win.
meltdown75
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I find it a little amusing about these ooglers and horn dogs but I'm not surprised.
I think its in womens nature to be a little more subtle. I admit to doing all those things myself.. In my opinion, I think men should be a little more sensitive to our feelings, and try to make us feel better when something is wrong.
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Why do you think girls are catty? seriously.... i cannot figure it out.
I was "out" a few weekends ago and random girls were walking around looking at other random girls giving them dirty looks....
Why are women like that? It saddens me that a female cannot go up to another girl and give her an honest and true compliment without walking away saying something mean.
I have no clue. Those types of girls tend to want the attention of everyone... maybe it gives them a feeling of power. Hopefully someday they'll realize that theyre no better than everyone else around them.
Skunkwourk
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I've gotten that way more times than I cared to count, but I never know what the GODDAMN PROBLEM IS!!!!!!!!! In my earlier days I got "Im not going to tell you whats wrong, you should already know and if you don't thats even worse". Im getting better at figuring it out though...
Men want women to be more straightforward, women don't want to have to explain all the time. Ironically both are trying to fix the problem.
I don't think thats the case. I looked through the ladder theory briefly and no I don't believe in it. I've dated nice guys and I've dated ok guys. But for me.. the nice guys didn't have much direction in their life and the ok guys did. None of them had both qualities that I look for... and other guys can be nice and have some direction.. they are socially inept. Those are for the most part the guys I've come across.
Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
Welcome to ATOT!
Regards
ng
I work in the Southern California area.
Take her on a very impressive first date (as in romance and pricey) and keep things smooth. A LITTLE alcohol won't help either. Don't ever have sex with a drunk girl.. thats not nice.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Do you like older guys?
I like older guys. I am dating an older guy but maybe an even older guy should suffice.
Originally posted by: tec699
why can't we get girls?
Most people nerdies can't get girls because they have spent so much time not socializing and too much time on say games that they have become socially incapable of holding a decent conversation with a girl.
I'm not sure if you're that type of person, but I've come across many nerds being an engineer myself and they just don't seem that easy going.
No.. I have a boyfriend. For those that don't think I'm a SHE.. I think its pretty clear from my other post "Not quite YAGuyT"..
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Why do you think girls are catty? seriously.... i cannot figure it out.
I was "out" a few weekends ago and random girls were walking around looking at other random girls giving them dirty looks....
Why are women like that? It saddens me that a female cannot go up to another girl and give her an honest and true compliment without walking away saying something mean.
i think flat out, we just are. some women are just competitive, some are just mean, some just need a conversation piece.
i don't give girls dirty looks, but i just think in my head that "is that really necessary? do you need to wear absolutely next to no clothing, put on 25 lbs of makeup just to go to the stupid mall?" why do we have to draw so much attention to ourselves? i'm one of those laid back, wear jeans and tshirts kind of girls. i'm going to vegas this weekend for my bday with my coworkers and they said "bring something somewhat slutty so we can go to a club." i've never been to a club in my life, and i don't own slutty clothing. or even close - i don't even own a tank to wear in public, i wear them under sweaters.
i'll compliment a fellow female, but only if i know them. no way in hell am i going to compliment a stranger. the flip side is that no one is perfect, and everyone has something unperfect about them, and i expect someone somewhere saying something about myself. besides, if a random person gave me a dirty look, i'd be wondering what the hell prompted that.
i have a low opinion of a lot of other females my age - they're shallow beyond belief, too busy concerning themselves with how they look and what stupid rich man they can attract, where's the party, can daddy pay for my new car, etc and it's just FRUSTRATING. and then there are men, who also have blame, with their expectations of the women they stare at, and the girls who just act like a person are not given the time of day. trophies are more important than substance. it's the act of trophy hunting where we get all the girls constantly glaring at each other.
All women are different. It's nice to hear from someone who is comfortable with themselves. Girls who are trophy hunting are the type who are probably most uncomfortable with themselves because they'll never get all the attention they want.
While I don't mind getting dressed up here and there.. and sadly yes.. to the mall as well, I find it a little flattering when I get hit on.
I compliment most of my female friends as well.. most of the time to make them feel good.. they could use a little boost.
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