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[halik]

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[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: halik
A fun update, apparently shes banging a guy that I knew as her "friend from work". So 3 months after we break up because she "fell out of love for me", "needs her freedom and independance" and " likes to be on her own", she got over the freedom thing.

I should've known, there ain't such thing as falling out of love in two months time.

all the signs were there next time hopefully you wont be so gullible.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: halik
A fun update, apparently shes banging a guy that I knew as her "friend from work". So 3 months after we break up because she "fell out of love for me", "needs her freedom and independance" and " likes to be on her own", she got over the freedom thing.

I should've known, there ain't such thing as falling out of love in two months time.

all the signs were there next time hopefully you wont be so gullible.

Basically. Don't mess with girls who just dick around. You will spot them eventually.

Sure you can be friends with the girl, but unless she knows what she wants, you will eventually get burned.

 

[James3shin]

It's gametime Halik! Do what you have to do and get your happiness man. Speaking from personal experience, just do your thing. Fvck what everyone else says.

 

[Bryophyte]

Did you expect her to spend her life celibate? Of course she's going to have sex with other guys. Go on with your life and let her go on with hers.

 

[halik]

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[CKDragon]

Originally posted by: FilmCamera
I never said that I was better than you. Just trying to give you a bit of a wake up call because you haven't seemed to have figured it out from your situation is all.

Ha, what a jackass.

Good luck, OP. Don't be like some of the YAGT naive youngin's here. Don't ever look back, not for a second. She won't change.

 

[purbeast0]

who cares ... she can do as she pleases, she's not with you anymore. get over yourself.

 

[whistleclient]

Originally posted by: halik

That was hardly the point of that post, It's more to illustrate that I'm ambitious, driven and with bright future. Somehow people always get stuck up on the money issue, which is rather irrelevant. I care about my future and I'm working hard towards it...


On the note of being driven, I was the one that pushed her towards applying to a bio PHD as opposed the 1 years MA program she wanted to do .

to be fair, Halik, you are the one who mentioned how much you make. if it was completely irrelevant to you, you wouldn't have mentioned it. also, you work at an investment bank on wall street. your entire job is devoted to increasing the wealth of your clients. "the money issue" is what wall street is all about.

that said, i'm sorry you and your girlfriend broke up. it's never feels good. i'm sure you'll meet someone great soon. anyone at your job that you like?

 

[PowerYoga]

Originally posted by: FilmCamera

Originally posted by: halik

Originally posted by: FilmCamera

Originally posted by: halik
Heh there we go,
I'm guessing you're generally bitter at life because guys like myself are passing you by in life? Have a coke and a smile and STFU :laugh:

I am not bitter at all. I enjoy my life. I enjoy it and do not have to buy myself bunches of things to make myself happy.

You are not passing me in life. To think that you are is just to think that you are better than me. Again, another reason why you fail at life.

Of two us of, you were the one that launched the ad hominems and superiority complex tirade because your lifestyle is obviously better than mine and I'm obviously just a materialistic jackass. As I said, I hope you don't like that in real life... you'd make for great company.

I never said that I was better than you. Just trying to give you a bit of a wake up call because you haven't seemed to have figured it out from your situation is all.

Hypocritical much? Here you are, busting into the topic telling the guy he's a materialistic jackass from a single post and imposing your way of life as the superior way. He's venting on the forums and you're being a creep touting your "superior way of life", because you don't have to "buy a bunch of things to be happy". The you go and say "I never said that I was better than you". :roll:

He can enjoy his way of life without your assrific comments. You're obviously a very bitter man with self-esteem issues because someone much younger than you have accomplished so much and earn more money than you ever can. You should probably get that checked out by a psychiatrist.

But keep trying to make yourself feel better by putting down others. You have a supeior way of life afterall. :shocked:

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: halik

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Did you expect her to spend her life celibate? Of course she's going to have sex with other guys. Go on with your life and let her go on with hers.

Heh no, not at all. But seeing as she broke up with me because she wanted to be single for a while, it's a little odd to say at least. Who knows what the hell went down when I moved out to NYC (it was long distance)... i kept hearing about her "friend" even when we were dating.

Just let it go. You're not going to feel any better dwelling on it. The relationship was just over for her, and she was probably too chickenshit to tell you how she was feeling. I imagine she knew you were leaving soon and decided it would be a lot less messy to wait to tell you it was over until after you were gone. She could have handled it better, but now it's over and you need to let her go emotionally. You started out ok, supposedly blocking her out of your life, but you're still dwelling on her and keeping tabs on what she's doing. For your mental well being, let all of the hurt and anger go.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: halik
A fun update, apparently shes banging a guy that I knew as her "friend from work". So 3 months after we break up because she "fell out of love for me", "needs her freedom and independance" and " likes to be on her own", she got over the freedom thing.

I should've known, there ain't such thing as falling out of love in two months time.

What am I missing here? Banging a guy and "being free" are not mutually exclusive. For most girls, anyway.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Just let it go. You're not going to feel any better dwelling on it. The relationship was just over for her, and she was probably too chickenshit to tell you how she was feeling. I imagine she knew you were leaving soon and decided it would be a lot less messy to wait to tell you it was over until after you were gone. She could have handled it better, but now it's over and you need to let her go emotionally. You started out ok, supposedly blocking her out of your life, but you're still dwelling on her and keeping tabs on what she's doing. For your mental well being, let all of the hurt and anger go.

Best advice so far!

 

[halik]

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[fallenangel99]

She'll be back. Use her and then dump her. It has happened to me before, it feels GREAT.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: halik

Just let it go. You're not going to feel any better dwelling on it. The relationship was just over for her, and she was probably too chickenshit to tell you how she was feeling. I imagine she knew you were leaving soon and decided it would be a lot less messy to wait to tell you it was over until after you were gone. She could have handled it better, but now it's over and you need to let her go emotionally. You started out ok, supposedly blocking her out of your life, but you're still dwelling on her and keeping tabs on what she's doing. For your mental well being, let all of the hurt and anger go.

touche,
old flames die slow I suppose.

They do, especially ones that last that long. It's also really hard on the ego for someone to prefer someone else when you cared so much for her.

 

[pcnerd37]

Originally posted by: animalia

Originally posted by: halik

Originally posted by: animalia
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