Arranged marraige

[kalster]

I am getting arranged married soon

 

[amdhunter]

:thumbsup:

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: kalster
I am getting arranged married soon

And why should we care?

 

[lobadobadingdong]

that can be either good or bad. good luck with that.

 

[Trogdor91]

Pics or ban!

 

[cjgallen]

Lots of arranged sex I hope!

 

[ThePresence]

How does it work?

 

[imported_malcontent]

Just say no!

 

[DaveSimmons]

The family must increase, it is your duty. Serenity lies in obedience.

 

[mercanucaribe]

I swear, there is no other forum that has enough Indians and Asians that you'll see threads about arranged marriages.

 

[meltdown75]

since it's arranged, you're allowed to post pics. i heard this before, it's legit. thx in advance 4 teh pix

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: cjgallen
Lots of arranged sex I hope!

I wonder if anyone has ever done studies of the sex lives of people in arranged marriages versus people who married for other reasons.

 

[xSauronx]

Originally posted by: ThePresence
How does it work?

you dont get to *pick* the bitch that ruins your life?

and we demand pics. diamond members should know this.

 

[MrYAK]

Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
that can be either good or bad. good luck with that.

yeah, it really is 50/50

 

[ThePresence]

Originally posted by: xSauronx

Originally posted by: ThePresence
How does it work?

you dont get to *pick* the bitch that ruins your life?

and we demand pics. diamond members should know this.

Do you even know who she is beforehand? Details man, details!

 

[kalster]

families of boy and girl set them up, the meet for a few times and decide it they want to continue and take it forward,

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: MrYAK

Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
that can be either good or bad. good luck with that.

yeah, it really is 50/50

Seeing how they have a less divorce rate then a normal marriage that has around a 50% rate you get better odds really.

 

[ThePresence]

Originally posted by: kalster
families of boy and girl set them up, the meet for a few times and decide it they want to continue and take it forward,

That doesn't sound so terrible, it's still your decision.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: MrYAK

Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
that can be either good or bad. good luck with that.

yeah, it really is 50/50

Seeing how they have a less divorce rate then a normal marriage that has around a 50% rate you get better odds really.

How much of that lower divorce rate comes from real compatibility between the partners in the marriage, and how much comes from the social stigma of divorce within the culture that practices arranged marriages?

 

[shopbruin]

Originally posted by: ThePresence

Originally posted by: kalster
families of boy and girl set them up, the meet for a few times and decide it they want to continue and take it forward,

That doesn't sound so terrible, it's still your decision.

better than my cousin, he was told to marry a certain girl.

but then he was weird and didn't mind, and their first kid is due this month. he was happy he didn't have to go find a wife. i was like. "uuhhhh sure"

EDIT: so i'm talking to my sister, and they had the kid on saturday. thanks for letting me know!

 

[cyberhap]

Have you met him yet?

 

[Legend]

Arranged marriages can be good.

The whole basis of the marriage is typically financial and starting a family, right? As long as you're wife turns out the be good, it could be great. The downside to this is that there's sometimes no passion to the marriage. No real love.

The basis on many modern western marriages is passion. A lot more sex based. More often, I think these marriages fall apart.

I think the best marriage is sort of a combination. Do it with someone you love, but have the basis of the marriage on friendship and goal of financial security and starting a family.

 

[kalster]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: MrYAK

Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
that can be either good or bad. good luck with that.

yeah, it really is 50/50

Seeing how they have a less divorce rate then a normal marriage that has around a 50% rate you get better odds really.

How much of that lower divorce rate comes from real compatibility between the partners in the marriage, and how much comes from the social stigma of divorce within the culture that practices arranged marriages?

Besides social stigma I think it also comes from people being more accomodating

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: cyberhap
Have you met him yet?

:laugh:

 

[CRXican]

is she hot?